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[Lurkio]

That’s a good point. Now, how would YOU react if your lady was texting with platonic male friends?

i wouldn’t expect my girl to cut off platonic friends just coz she’s w me…just set boundaries…exes and ppl you fukked is obviously different…but ppl have a whole life before u it’s insecure to all of sudden expect them to drop everyone for you…just be respectful

 

[Lurkio]

he need to check her cash app transaction...

those text messages dont compare to the amount of funds office bae/husband has sent her for the past couple of years

$$$ >>> text messages

u cant delete the transactions are there long as she has the account...


she can delete all the messages and pictures n call logs all day...


9 times outta 10 u can click the cash app sender n see the face ...

This is a real gem right here…rep

 

[Prodyson]

Y'all dudes really be having zero contact with other women if you're in a relationship? I can’t wrap my mind around that shyt. I understand not talking to hoes and shyt but I actually have real female friends. Even if I didn’t have those friends, I think it’s asinine to expect your partner to not talk to another motherfukker. I don’t want that kind of control over anybody and I damn sure ain’t letting nobody have it over me.

Seriously, for mature adults with actual fukking discipline this shyt shouldn’t be an issue

I don’t think it’s 100% an issue, but your significant other should have a clear understanding of your relationship with those people BEFORE you start dating and there still need to be some boundaries once you start dating. Sometime friends can be flirtatious with each other, even if it’s innocent. You gotta cut that out immediately if you’re in a relationship.

And let’s be real, most times if a man hasn’t slept with an attractive woman that’s his friend, it’s because she hasn’t expressed clear interest in wanting to sleep with him. If she made the offer, he would likely oblige. That can cause potential complications if the woman has that thought in the back of her mind. Sometimes people cheat because they slip up or put themselves in a compromising situation, not because they’re just shytty unfaithful human beings. I prefer to limit those types of situations altogether because at the end of the day, we’re human.

 

[In The Zone '98]

You're an adult. You can have women friends.

Keep it classy though.

 

[gho3st]

hope she leaves you

Nikka you. Hope you find out you was adopted

 

[maxamusa]

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[gho3st]

Update

 

[DJ Paul's Arm]

That’s why you get a $10 a month prepaid Hoe Burner Phone that you keep behind your car fender.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I don’t think it’s 100% an issue, but your significant other should have a clear understanding of your relationship with those people BEFORE you start dating and there still need to be some boundaries once you start dating. Sometime friends can be flirtatious with each other, even if it’s innocent. You gotta cut that out immediately if you’re in a relationship.

And let’s be real, most times if a man hasn’t slept with an attractive woman that’s his friend, it’s because she hasn’t expressed clear interest in wanting to sleep with him. If she made the offer, he would likely oblige. That can cause potential complications if the woman has that thought in the back of her mind. Sometimes people cheat because they slip up or put themselves in a compromising situation, not because they’re just shytty unfaithful human beings. I prefer to limit those types of situations altogether because at the end of the day, we’re human.

Aint no man about to sit through every person they ever met and explain the relationship they used to have just in case that chick pops up again…

Would women do that? Would anyone even remember?

And it’s vice versa with male “friends” as well.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

She feels like i broke her trust and wants to breakup….i dont feel like i cheated or did so since i didnt fck anyone nor apply pressure to any of them…

what to do?


UPDATE: there may be hope. She asks me if i ever chilled with any of them. I told her no .

Don’t give your self false hope. Balls not just in her court either.

What did you send the other girl

 

[Prodyson]

Aint no man about to sit through every person they ever met and explain the relationship they used to have just in case that chick pops up again…

Would women do that? Would anyone even remember?

And it’s vice versa with male “friends” as well.

That’s not what I suggested at all, lol

 

[gho3st]

Don’t give your self false hope. Balls not just in her court either.

What did you send the other girl

Nothing incriminating…

 

[Turbulent]

Do you feel like you did something wrong?

If not, put your foot down and tell her it's no issue because ABC... if she's still talking, tell her to kick rocks.

You're acting shaky. Cause on one hand you telling her it's nothing, on the other hand you're acting towards her like you are seeking her forgiveness. Your words and actions are not congruent so she's feeling like there's something off which is why she keeps poking.

 

[Lurkio]

Do you feel like you did something wrong?

If not, put your foot down and tell her it's no issue because ABC... if she's still talking, tell her to kick rocks.

You're acting shaky. Cause on one hand you telling her it's nothing, on the other hand you're acting towards her like you are seeking her forgiveness. Your words and actions are not congruent so she's feeling like there's something off which is why she keeps poking.

Bruh exactly…the only way this relationship should have gone forward is with her apologizing for not trusting him.

I’m ready to marry you and I’m not cheating but I should beg to get u back coz of a txt? FOH

 

[Turbulent]

Bruh exactly…the only way this relationship should have gone forward is with her apologizing for not trusting him.

I’m ready to marry you and I’m not cheating but I should beg to get u back coz of a txt? FOH

Don't get me wrong, i still think he was acting foul if he was hiding it from his girl. But if he wasn't and if he truly feels like he's innocent, he should act like it. Right now, his whole demeanor is like a guilty man trying to get his girl back (which is why he's losing)