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She feels like i broke her trust and wants to breakup….i dont feel like i cheated or did so since i didnt fck anyone nor apply pressure to any of them…

what to do?
So you'd be cool with your girl talking to a bunch of men as long as she hasn't fukked right?

If not go ahead n face reality. You decide what the standards are for your relationship. A double standard is hard to rationalize, be honest with yourself when you answer that question.
 

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hell naw. But i would get back with if her if she understood thats a no go since i aint doin it…

i always thought she had guy friends
You just answered your own question. If it's a hell nah, why the hell would you think it's okay for you to do?
 

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Understand that this will always be a part of the story of your relationship. If you stay together, IT WILL COME UP. Do not entertain conversations with other females unless y'all are mutual friends or family and you're going to show her the messages or bring up the conversation to your girl immediately afterwards.

Even then, I keep it short, and unless it's about gathering info to do something special for your girl, DO NOT INITIATE COMMUNICATION!

Now you gotta text these females and tell them that you overstepped in your communicating with them and unintentionally caused discourse in your household and will no longer be in communication with them because the relationship with your girl is what's most important to you.

Then you gotta let her read it.

Peace and good luck to you breh. If she's worth it, do this. If it's too much for you, then apologize and tell her you're going to give her her space and understand if she wants to end things.

Or....you gotta force her to flirt in front of you with the Black Snake Moan scowl so that y'all are even.
 

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She feels like i broke her trust and wants to breakup….i dont feel like i cheated or did so since i didnt fck anyone nor apply pressure to any of them…

what to do?


If she did the same thing to you, how would you feel? Would her texting or even giving other men her attention be okay with you?
 

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I was with a chick who would text back and forth with other dudes.

It would be dumb texts too. She text some shyt like "the bacon in aisle 5 is ready to be purchased". She'd text another dude "The Olympics are going to be great"


The texts were so dumb that I didn't think anything of them. Come to find out, she was texting in code that she practiced with them. She was basically telling them she is ready to fukk.
That shyt sound like a Kevin Hart stand-up
:russ:
 
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