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southern.girl

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Whats tha cause of yall not being together.. We're yall friends who happened to have a child or were yall in a serious relationship?.. Sound like u doing the right thing but it's her hormones and her having to raise a child 50/50 is probably just not setting in

It sounds like she thought this baby would bring them “closer together” & that they would become a happy family. Now she has to confront the truth that her happily ever after was a pipe dream.

There were so many bad decisions in the OP’s post. We really need to take family planning serious. I can already see the years of headache from this arrangement.
 

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Should've wrapped it up... or not fukked with her to begin w/ if you knew she was trifling.

Good luck nikka!

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I ain't reading all that, instead I just skimmed through it but I will say this...

By the time y'all hit 30yrs old & up all that baby daddy / baby mama drama chronicles should've been done with a long time ago :snoop:.


You both aren't teenagers or a young adults anymore...it's time for both of y'all to grow up yeah BOTH because you're not righteous throughout this situation either :sas1: .
 

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Hey man, sounds like your honesty chipped her armor.

Sounds like a lot going on, breh...

Not a father, but many of my friends say that her mood may be dictated by a change in hormones too:hubie:
 

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Mama trying to have a 'keep a nikka' baby. Trying to force the relationship.

idk why woman do this shyt. If a man doesn't want you before the baby he certainly won't want you after.
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Right!!!! Chicks don't realize they laying traps for dudes and falling in em themselves.
If a chick plays her cards right in today's society she really could have it all.
 

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Both of y’all are dumbasses and deserve the 18 (20+ if the child goes to college) years of misery that y’all are about to get.

Stop fukking chicks raw if you don’t want a baby.

Stop having babies by nikkas who don’t want to be a father/husband.

It’s like y’all seek out struggle. :francis:
 

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Better be saving for a child support lawyer/ family court lawyer.
Plus future mediation fees.
Make sure she tells you about any government programs she'll be using cause they will be looking for the father to pay them back.
Put your agreements in emails and writings.
No advice will help unless it's about preparation at this point. She gone do what she wants to, as you have given her the right to. With that being said good luck.

Babies with no strings attached....
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