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[Swirv]

Hang in there Breh. It’s going to be a rocky ride but maintain your mental health. Sounds like you’ll take care of your kid.

Smarten up though and request a dna test before signing that birth certificate. If she declines then don’t sign.

Pregnancy is rough on woman so remember that. She’s not always in her right mind due to all that’s changing within her. Be patient. Even after the childbirth they’re hormones are still out of wack and some even deal with depression. Try to be a soothing presence.

Enjoy that pregnant pumpum. Or someone else will.

Good luck. Children are a blessing. The older you get the more true that becomes in my experience.

 

[13473]

Everything was gucci until I say I can have the baby with me 3 days out the week after 3 months

i have no kids but is this normal? i'd think at this point daytime visitation was ok, then when the baby is a bit older take him/her overnight

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Also, OP if she good enough to fukk raw, she good enough to wife up. Sex has consequences. Don't fukk women you wouldn't possibly wanna raise a family with. That's a lifetime of bitterness, dysfunctionality, mindgames, wasted time and money in which an innocent child has to grow up in.
Hope it works out.

 

[904Lurker]

I know a guy that can handle your problem OP




@ikbm

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Right!!!! Chicks don't realize they laying traps for dudes and falling in em themselves.
If a chick plays her cards right in today's society she really could have it all.

Simple minded desperation. Nothing worse than a bitter baby momma. Chick is already talking about public housing and child support. OP lost lost. lol

I will never understand women who run behind men. Sad

 

[LordLyons]

Shes gonna make you pay for not wanting to get back with her.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Better be saving for a child support lawyer/ family court lawyer.
Plus future mediation fees.
Make sure she tells you about any government programs she'll be using cause they will be looking for the father to pay them back.
Put your agreements in emails and writings.
No advice will help unless it's about preparation at this point. She gone do what she wants to, as you have given her the right to. With that being said good luck.

Babies with no strings attached....

Also, make sure he gets receipts for everything he buys

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

Better be saving for a child support lawyer/ family court lawyer.
Plus future mediation fees.
Make sure she tells you about any government programs she'll be using cause they will be looking for the father to pay them back.
Put your agreements in emails and writings.
No advice will help unless it's about preparation at this point. She gone do what she wants to, as you have given her the right to. With that being said good luck.

Babies with no strings attached....

Dude putting $200 every other week in that bank account trying keep her from going to court to get that real CS money he should take that money back for the lawyer like you said cuz she will get the courts involved when the baby arrives and shyt gets real real.

Definitely get that paternity test before you sign anything OP cuz you just might luck out and not be the father but it sounds like you know you nutted in her enough to be the papi.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Cole...you stupid

 

[Ricky Fontaine]

Bruh just go to the court and get that shyt on paper. Custody, child support, all that.

nikkas usually don't like that option but this chick ain't even pretending like she gonna do the rational.

Just jump in front of it. That way she can't keep you from seeing the kid, she can't lie and say you don't wanna see the kid and she can't mysteriously forget about all the money you been giving. It is what it is at this point.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Simple minded desperation. Nothing worse than a bitter baby momma. Chick is already talking about public housing and child support. OP lost lost. lol

I will never understand women who run behind men. Sad

Girl u preaching! Riiiiiiiiiight. Nobody is perfect and everybody got somebody they've been dumb for at some point in their lives.
But...
But...
BUT...

This shyt don't make no sense. Ain't no damn "accident". Ain't no condom broke. They trying to preggy they way into a relationship.
Sometimes that shyt works b/c they make life so miserable for the dude until he can't be in a relationship with anyone else BUT her.

But most of the time these chicks left in the dust.
Girl do you know how much my good carefree life would be disrupted by an unwanted pregnancy?! These chicks trying to shoot nikkas pointin the gun backwards. That moonwalk hustle.

 

[EndDomination]

You might as well keep smashing now
It will placate her anxieties, and you can go raw every time
Most women go through a massive gamut of emotions when they get pregnant unexpectedly; especially with the increased isolation, fear of being alone, general stress, personal appearance rapidly changing, etc. To be expected

 

[Lord_nikon]

Your only option was marry or date or child support..


Or

Anal, mouth, or back.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Its your own damn fault

 

[datnigDASTARDLY]

I'm flabbergasted dude is almost 30 and didn't peep game.

homie 30 and moving like a teenager.

This reminds me so much of home in the low country. Good luck breh you gon need it