Not disagreeing with you but I have to put the blame on both. Because I doubt fathers who are really in their daughter's life, active, and setting boundaries, will even let their daughter stray to that extent. Like I know for me, I always had in the back of my mind - "what would my father do if I did ..... " or "my brothers would kick my ass if they caught me... " Know what I mean? Daddy's little girl doesn't want to disappoint their father. It was always about consequences- I feel like she wants a cry for attention. Look at Larry Fishburne's daughter (if we're using public figure examples) and he's a man's man that we see out there. It's a different mindset when we know that our father will shame us or fathers/brothers in the family who won't let us shame ourselves. That's the first example of a male figure that we have. Mothers some times see the daughter as "competition" so I could see her not respecting her mother or her mother not having the influence to control her behavior if the mother is not setting the right example. But if I saw my father out there wilding, it would crush my soul back then - he always maintained a certain vibe where we knew his mindset. Now it's different bc our parents are human and not perfect as we become adults; no one is infallible.