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Did dad school you on women?
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read books to strengthen the mouthpiece, learn from other people experience 
/thread. Even worse cause my pops and me have almost 40 years between usNope. African parents as well. They say good luck, then a couple years later ask, where's your girlfriend? When are you getting married?
My dad is exactly 40 years older than me
, I know the pain.
Nope. African parents as well. They say good luck, then a couple years later ask, where's your girlfriend? When are you getting married?
shyt is rough in the motherland.
For guys you just get no advice, for girls its even worse.
This how they did my sister:
Age 14 Stay away from boys, focus on school, dont disgrace yourself and your family
Age 16 Stay away from boys, focus on school, dont disgrace yourself and your family
Age 18 Stay away from boys, focus on school, dont disgrace yourself and your family
Age 20 Stay away from boys, focus on school, dont disgrace yourself and your family
Age 23 Stay away from boys, focus on school, dont disgrace yourself and your family
Age 24 Why are you not marrried yet. Ehn. How are you not married yet. Where is your boyfriend!
Age 26 Why are you not marrried yet. Ehn. How are you not married yet. Where is your boyfriend!
Age 28 Why are you not marrried yet. Ehn. How are you not married yet. Where is your boyfriend!
I mean i get it but come the f on. shyt is mad toxic. Sex and metal health is like our kryptonite out here. No one wants to discuss it at home. We just on our own.
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My dad was telling me to be confident and while macking on chicks in front of me with expensive clothes, cars, and a 6 figure salary moms and the fam were constantly killing a breh's confidence.
Don't get divorced if you have kids ya'll.
Don't get divorced if you have kids ya'll.
No.
Edit: he did show what it meant to be a man and handling your responsibilities tho, just without ever having sit down talks. I might end up more like him the older I get without realizing it , no matter how reckless and idgaf I’ve been acting up till this point
Edit: he did show what it meant to be a man and handling your responsibilities tho, just without ever having sit down talks. I might end up more like him the older I get without realizing it , no matter how reckless and idgaf I’ve been acting up till this point
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Screwed up... till tha casket drops!!
no, and it stunted me emotionally/romantically, i'm never doing that to my son
Nope!
My Mom, Aunts and sisters did.
My Mom, Aunts and sisters did.
African_brehda
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Nah, he sees me with a woman when I was like 23, and advices me on how a pregnancy will fukk up my future. I’m thinking “damn, doesn’t he think it might be too late to have this talk?” 
African parents here too
African parents here too
African_brehda
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Nope. African parents as well. They say good luck, then a couple years later ask, where's your girlfriend? When are you getting married?
breh, being rude towards daughters male friends and keeping them from going out… and expecting them to conjure a husband out of thin air when the time comes
I'm noticing an African parent trend 
Same here, pops didn't teach me shyt but expected me to know everything. When I fukked up he'd be like you don't know anything
I'm like nikka teach me something then.
Short answer I learned on my own.
Same here, pops didn't teach me shyt but expected me to know everything. When I fukked up he'd be like you don't know anything
I'm like nikka teach me something then.
Short answer I learned on my own.
Cape Town JHB
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Your father wasn't your mother's first choice. So he couldn't teach you much anyway 