Did I bully this girl on Plenty of fish?

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Then you shoulda been old enough to know better. You not one of these little kids. :camby: You pushin 40 talkin about you stood up for me from TNT, a internet clique of people that neg rep. O man that changes everything :heh: nikka, if you dont get your goofy ass up out my face. :camby:
I'm 29, turning 30. Yo you really need to dead this convo now.
 

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That was EXACTLY what I told my homegirl. I told her that with that attitude she is going to be single for a very long time. Dudes don't want a girl who is super negative and says those kinds of things in their profile, nevertheless someone who says those things in real life. My friend said that I don't know if that is true, but I told her that I do know that it's true--I've seen it with my own three eyes. All she is saying is "I'm hurt. Please don't hurt me :mjcry:. Also, the only dating white men shyt got me HEATED. I'm like, shorty, you're on a dating website. You obviously aren't doing to well in your dating life. Not to judge because neither am I, but at least I'm SUPER open to any kind of race and size (:mjpls:).
Is she not a white? Doe she have to say she dates the un coalition. Not everyone is interested in dating outside their race so I don't understand why it bothers you.

If you do...then find likeminded people. ..its really none of your business.
 

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Did you read my above post about the luck I've had with bar women? I have the WORST luck when it comes to bar women. I get numbers from pretty attractive women, but when I text them it's always "oh, I'm super busy with my life and don't have time to date. I'm sorry," or "I'm not interested." Just last weekend I pulled this chick who initiated flirting with me. She kept saying how cool I was and started conversing with me, and even put her head on my chest and was giggling. She gives me her number and said she was down to go out and do something. So I text her my number and she doesn't reply. I give it a few days and text again, and she responds "I'm not interested. Sorry." I told her she was probably just drunk that night, to which she replied "I was...opps! You're def cool, though. Take care." I can't tell you how many times that has happened. Everyone, including my therapist, has been telling me to stay away from bar girls. I'm finally going to take their advice and stay the hell away from them.

Yeah, it was definitely malicious intent on my part. Like I said, I was having a bad day that day and something told me to say something. She replied to my apology and thanked me for apologizing :ld:

1) She's hispanic. 2) Yes, I am upset I'm not an option (even though I wasn't really attracted to her in the first place). I think narrowing your field to only one race is incredibly discriminatory. I told my white homegirl that shyt too. There is absolutely no reason that someone wouldn't date outside of their race, period. If you like only certain features, that tells me you're an idiot bc all races have the same features. I don't say shyt to the black girls who have the same attitude as her, because I know better than to holla at them. The thing that made me say what I said was the only white men part, ALONG WITH THE OTHER STUFF.
Listen this whole you must date every race/ethnic group is new age post racial rhetoric. In reality there is nothing forcing anyone to want to date other races outside of their own. You have the right to be discriminatory in dating as long as you do not have disdain for those puutside of your preference.
hispanic doesn't mean she isn't white. I hate whrn people try to forcefeed dating other races to suit their own agenda. ..ish is mighty insecure.
 

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Where you went wrong is explaining anything to anyone. You sent what you sent so stand by that and :manny:.

If someone in your life has a problem with it then hit them with the :camby:

People really need to stop explaining their actions to others. How you felt is how you felt. What you wanted to do at the moment is what you wanted to do. That's it and that's all.
 
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