Did you read my above post about the luck I've had with bar women? I have the WORST luck when it comes to bar women. I get numbers from pretty attractive women, but when I text them it's always "oh, I'm super busy with my life and don't have time to date. I'm sorry," or "I'm not interested." Just last weekend I pulled this chick who initiated flirting with me. She kept saying how cool I was and started conversing with me, and even put her head on my chest and was giggling. She gives me her number and said she was down to go out and do something. So I text her my number and she doesn't reply. I give it a few days and text again, and she responds "I'm not interested. Sorry." I told her she was probably just drunk that night, to which she replied "I was...opps! You're def cool, though. Take care." I can't tell you how many times that has happened. Everyone, including my therapist, has been telling me to stay away from bar girls. I'm finally going to take their advice and stay the hell away from them.
Yeah, it was definitely malicious intent on my part. Like I said, I was having a bad day that day and something told me to say something. She replied to my apology and thanked me for apologizing
1) She's hispanic. 2) Yes, I am upset I'm not an option (even though I wasn't really attracted to her in the first place). I think narrowing your field to only one race is incredibly discriminatory. I told my white homegirl that shyt too. There is absolutely no reason that someone wouldn't date outside of their race, period. If you like only certain features, that tells me you're an idiot bc all races have the same features. I don't say shyt to the black girls who have the same attitude as her, because I know better than to holla at them. The thing that made me say what I said was the only white men part, ALONG WITH THE OTHER STUFF.