Did I do the right thing?

[sanityovar8ted]

Before I got married I met this dude online and we became friends. Then we started dating because he was cool offline as well. But after about a year I find out he messed with a 15 yr old girl he met online when he was 21. I have a daughter so it was no bueno, I broke up with him. I see him every now and again and I can't help but think, did I make the right decision. What are ya'lls thoughts on men fukking with underage girls.

 

[Bud Bundy]

if it bothers you then that is all that matters.

 

[Methodical]

Are you feeling comfortable with him around with your daughter?....THINK TWICE!

 

[Pool_Shark]

nope your daughter should always come first.

Then again 15 with 21 isn't too crazy from the stories these cacs tell me at work

 

[DrunkenNovice]

How did you find out?

 

[sanityovar8ted]

it did make me very uncomfortable knowing what he was capable of doing, whose to say he wouldn't do it again , so that's why I broke it off with him.

 

[sanityovar8ted]

How did you find out?

one of my friends who knew both of them told me about their lil tryst.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

You did the right thing. If a 21 year old man needs to mess with a 15 year old kid, he probably has some problem you would have found out about later. Even if he wasn't a pedo there is some reason he was messing with a kid and not a woman his age.

 

[Methodical]

it did make me very uncomfortable knowing what he was capable of doing, whose to say he wouldn't do it again , so that's why I broke it off with him.

There you go......that's your answer.

By the way....Have you asked him question about his situation?..why did he sleep with a 15 years old girl?......What if a girl lied about her age when he met her?....

 

[Wesley Pipes quotes]

This is going to be interesting. No comment on the OP.

 

[The Prince of All Saiyans]

nope your daughter should always come first.

Then again 15 with 21 isn't too crazy from the stories these cacs tell me at work

such as

 

[Methodical]

You did the right thing. If a 21 year old man needs to mess with a 15 year old kid, he probably has some problem you would have found out about later. Even if he wasn't a pedo there is some reason he was messing with a kid and not a woman his age.

Yeah but what if he is innocent? A 15 yr old girl might have mature body develop so fast especially nowadays now.....she might tricked him about her age til he found out. We all don't know that cause there are always two sides to every story.

 

[Blankthawtz]

sometimes u gotta go with your first instinct....

 

[MeachTheMonster]

Yeah but what if he is innocent? A 15 yr old girl might have mature body develop so fast especially nowadays now.....she might tricked him about her age til he found out. We all don't know that cause there are always two sides to every story.

Any grown man that claims he didn't know a girl is 15 years old is either making excuses or he's stupid. Furthermore even if he thought she was 18 he should be looking for women his age, not meeting teenagers on the Internet. Any way you cut it op dodged a bullet

 

[Methodical]

sometimes u gotta go with your first instinct....

True, always go with your first instinct.

Any grown man that claims he didn't know a girl is 15 years old is either making excuses or he's stupid. Furthermore even if he thought she was 18 he should be looking for women his age, not meeting teenagers on the Internet. Any way you cut it op dodged a bullet

Yeah, if he's making an excuses and he's still stupid. Like I said, I think OP should have asked him about his situation before any friends told about her...what if they're lying? and at the same time she can sense him if he's lying or telling the truth.