Did she go overboard with the apology?

Wildhundreds

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You admit it's a critique though, not an acceptance?

You called it a critique.. im just rolling with you..

However, I've grown to fully appreciate the importance of honest communication..

If you fck up, then have a serious conversation about why you fcked up, then you may come to the conclusion its best you move on..

But masking an apology in pomp and circumstance means nothing if you didn't sit down and have a honest conversation about it..
 

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For me just a simple sorry and explaining why you know you fukked up and understand how it affected me would suffice. Especially since balloons like that are repugnant.
^^Exactly

I'd be more concerned about her knowing why she fukked up and communicating to my why it wouldn't happen again.
 

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If she made all the food and desserts herself, accepted. If she just had take out or delivery then:camby:
 

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You called it a critique.. im just rolling with you..

However, I've grown to fully appreciate the importance of honest communication..

If you fck up, then have a serious conversation about why you fcked up, then you may come to the conclusion its best you move on..

But masking an apology in pomp and circumstance means nothing if you didn't sit down and have a honest conversation about it..
Communication is key, but some people try to act ignorant and pretend they don't understand the implications of an apology. (an apology means they regret their actions and vow to correct them)
It's one thing to not believe their apology is sincere. But if you beleive it is you should simply accept it. Instead people use it as an opportunity to lecture about the fact they should regret and correct their actions, which defeats it's entire purpose, because that is already implied by making the apology in the first place.This person has humbled themselves before you, and you chose that moment to strike rather than to understand. That is simply not acceptance. You had an opportunity for closure and chose to leave things in ambiguity. If that's how it is, there really is no point to it.
 
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