Did y’all ever get over your first love?

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I used to subconsciously compare every chick to her which wasn’t good for most of my relationships but, then I met another woman who made me feel that level of connection again so I knew it was possible to find what I was looking for with someone else but the first chick still pops in my head from time to time. I had a dream about her recently and shyt fukked my head up :francis:
 

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Yes.

Ain't shyt really there in 2018 for us but I reminisce about when it was good.

And now. I just want a woman who likes me just cause she likes me and wants nothing more than to lay up and laugh and hold each other.

That's how love was then. It was simple and pure. No scams. No games. Just wanting to with her all the time and vice versa.

I shudder at the thought of finding a new woman. A total stranger. Is it even a real woman? If she was born a female, which parts are artificial now?

Is she scheming to get seeded up? Does she have some lunatic Baby Daddy? A crazy family?

Arrrrghhhhhh

I miss her. Not the real her now but the dreamworld of yesteryear when everything was fresh and we were gonna take it all on together.
 

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Lmao I just laugh about it now, the reality is nobody ever died of heartbreak and none of them contributed to my well-being or bothered to check on how I felt/was doing. Meh on to greener pastures.

Edit: wait, he did bring me money when I called him after we broke up once, I guess I give him credit for that? I don’t think he realized how much he hurt me.
 

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I wont ever be able to love & simp for a broad the same way I did that first chick.... its simply no longer possible.... it doesnt even feel right anymore LOL, my heart is locked in a chamber.

she hit me up via social media last year when she seen a nikka winning tho..... broke bytch

once that youthful innocence surrounding love & females is destroyed.... its hard to go backwards, especially when you got homegirls who tell you how these young women are moving out here..... shyt crazy....I could never fully commit to a woman....

Love is some feminine shyt anyway.... I dont look for love anymore.... Love is unconditional and only your mama can give you that.... These women dont got unconditional love for you....

I only look for loyalty & submission.

Loyal women will do anything for you.... they'll treat you like a king how you were meant to be treated by a woman...

a woman could love you and not even respect you.

Plenty women 'love' their husbands and dont even respect the nikka....

I'm cool on that love shyt.... give me loyalty everyday of the week

Loyalty > Love
 

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Lmao I just laugh about it now, the reality is nobody ever died of heartbreak and none of them contributed to my well-being or bothered to check on how I felt/was doing. Meh on to greener pastures.
Facts... I feel you; that's the right attitude. There's always better..
 

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I got over on that bytch a million times:lolbron:














She was blinded by the love she had for a nikka:to:
 

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:mjlol:Yeah cause I've dated and met terrific women throughout my life you really only think about your first loves when you're in a shytty relationship or single as fukk.

My first love is cool though. But i tend to meet great women so it's not a big deal to get over an ex a first love at that
 

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yeah , took about 6 months.

i don''t think having a dream, equates to you not being over her though.
 

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That's how love was then. It was simple and pure. No scams. No games. Just wanting to with her all the time and vice versa.

I miss her. Not the real her now but the dreamworld of yesteryear when everything was fresh and we were gonna take it all on together.

she hit me up via social media last year when she seen a nikka winning tho..... broke bytch

once that youthful innocence surrounding love & females is destroyed.... its hard to go backwards, especially when you got homegirls who tell you how these young women are moving out here..... shyt crazy....I could never fully commit to a woman....

I know that’s what it is. In her current form, she’s a lot more jaded and cold than I remember. I’m idealizing a girl that doesn’t even exist anymore.
 
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