Did You Ever Feel Remorse Seeing A Good Girl Get "Turned Out"?

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and turnt out don't always mean hoed out

you could turn a bytch into a freak but she'll still only fukk with a certain class/type of cat
she maintains a standard

now a hoed out bytch will let any nikka crush

imo


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This is a very good post, I think you very clearly explained the nuances between sexual judgment of women on the whole and people negatively altered by poor relationship choices.

I am against the former and indifferent to the latter.
Yea, its one of those things I don't think people really give the effort to understand. This is why I say I am not against anyone having sex and doing them.
It's not the sex, its the reason behind it.

One person is having sex because they like it.
The next is having sex because it fills a void for something they are missing at home.

The first person can be the sweetest person ever, and a demon in the bed.

The second may have problems that come between them and having a meaningful relationship, which leads to toxic people fukking and chucking them, making
their "damage" even worse. This person may feel wholly unloved, and instead of having the ability to express this, they sleep around for validation, yet never
get any.

Truth be told, if I had a daughter(son as well, but girls take a different approach), I would be upfront as possible about the pros and cons of relationships,
and make sure to help her be as well-rounded socially, academically, and emotionally as possible so Kenneth from around the way doesn't captivate her
and have her get into the shyt he likes, up to and including drugs, theft, etc. The issue with sex that isn't commonly discussed is it can be indicative of some
other issues, but people are to worried about not being shamed to realize promiscuity and who you choose can reveal a LOT about you.

The girl I lost my "spark" to showed the same pattern of choosing emotionally distant dudes, some she knew would not be around, even as far as
"dating" guys online. This was way before I hit, I saw the signs. Later she tells me about the guys she had sex with, and the usual end result.
Alright :francis: that has nothing to do with me, so shes just doing her. Next thing I know, she comes onto me, few months later we fukk a few times, and
I was already in love with her for the longest, but she wanted from me what she got from everyone else:distance. Within a few more months, she went
through 2 "relationships".

This isn't something people simply make up in their heads. A girl who has frequent sex, same with a guy, with different partners
may not be relationship material for reasons that aren't readily apparent. How am I to know that I am sexually adequate for a girl
that catches a new body every weekend, and regularly carries on with a couple all the while?

I'm satisfied with using my hand when the going gets tough, and don't need to dip my toe in every pond. I know there is a woman who
will feel that way, as well. Why should I ask for someone who is promiscuous to change aspects of themselves for me? I can simply avoid them.
A lot of people slut shame because we have seen plenty destroy themselves and other people with risky behavior (stds, homewrecking, etc).
Unfortunately most of the blame seems to fall on women, but im of the mind when it comes to destructive behavior, sex isn't above reproach.
 
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one of the girls of my old job, i think she was like 19 years old, hooked on opium by an old iranian dude, had to get up every day an hour early to drop by dude to get her fix before she came to work. her bf knew, but didn't care because he was a junkie, too and ok with it... well she ended up in an escort service
 

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Nobody shedding a tear for me but my momma. I empathize. Truly I do.

But nobody on this earth shedding a tear for me but my momma. Even my pops would call me stupid before he shed a tear.

So let that marinate for a minute.
 

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this girl I knew since kindergarten :sadcam: sweet girl

she liked my boy and my boy was a demon :demonic: and we all know demons don't love these hoes. strung her along as a side bytch for a year. all manner of sexual depravity. pumped and dumped once he got tired of her. heard stories about her getting passed around like a hot potato. before she got with him she was a virgin, afterward...:wow:


you saw a difference when you looked at her. the light had gone out in her eyes. before she was bouncy and cute and energetic and excitable and giggly. now she was crushed emotionally and jaded about life:dame:
Why do men think dikks have the power to break women lol how you know something else wasn't happening in her life? Lots of shyt happens after kindergarten lol. and how about the fact that those guys may have been jerks?
 

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I'm pretty sure I wrote about this chick before. But but there was this tall, cute, smart, thick chick from my neighborhood. We were friends since we were little, but I never tried to holla or anything. Bad yellowbone, even went to the smart kids highschool and was doing good. So after graduation I go away to college we loose touch for a few years ( this is pre facebook and i didn't mess with myspace at all ). About 6 years pass and I'm in walmart shopping and I hear my name, look up and it's her.

Still kinda cute, but 3-4 shorties, and cold dead stripper eyes. The spark was gone. Chopped it up with her and some dude had basically turned her out, started keeping her drunk and high, got her modeling/stripping, knocked her up a couple times and she never bounced back. She was so smart and independent, now she just hops from dude to dude and collects aide.

At 25 I had to burn my cape to stop from throwing it on for her...:cape:

Now we're in our 30s she's on her "find a simp (good guy) I ignored to take care of me and my kids" hunt. The funny part is, she's still kinda thick so someone will do it.:sas2:
 

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I'll put it like this:

Scenario 1:
If she was on some ratchet behavior or some grimey shyt on the low, then she got turned out for the world to see and it left her there cold and alone... no sympathy.
:yeshrug:

Scenario 2:
If she was on some good human being shyt, just ignorant and no street smarts, then got turned out for the world and she out there cold and alone... sure I'll have sympathy.

:ld:



But my thing is this: I have sympathy for people more than animals or some shyt. If you just a person that got wrecked by bad luck I feel bad for you but if you out here strung out suckin up dikks like a Dyson vacuum.........................
:martin: GO ON, GTFO
 

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Not gone; just dormant. It may resurface when she loves herself again and finds the right guy for her. Women don't become assertive until later in life. That virginal good girl shyt is a fairy tale. No female wants to recollect experiencing only ONE (1) dikk during her entire life in a rocking chair as a senior or deathbed.:russell: She will remember the fun times being tossed during beach week :ohlawd: , by Thuggaboo :demonic:, and her husband's best friend who offered her comfort and wood on reserve while bae was deployed in Iraq:heh:. She will also smile and think about the wonderful well-adjusted children and grandchildren, the only things in life that truly mattered, by the guy she decided to grow old with . Ask your aunties and grandmammies what I am talking about :ufdup: That Girl Lost is a act or a phase.
 

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