I was close with him up until i was like 5 or 6. He bailed out to the east coast and moms didnt wanna go. Saw him maybe 5 times since. He did a little breh wrong. He left because his dad was on his last years and he was an a$$hole who nobody fukk with but he had money (something like 3 mil). My dad thought going to be with him would mean pay day but like the ass hole gramps was, he donated all his inheritance to some distant family back in liberia in his will
Pops was too embarassed to come back so he started his own life in NY.
I think id be sad when he passes but id get over it quick. Lietrally have nothing for him but memories of when I was kid..
I did everything to be the opposite of him and its amazing. Id never leave my kids for some BS money.