Did you have a good relationship with your father?

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I love him but hes different. Glad hes still here and hes an elderly man now. However, im disappointed with him because he could have done more but chose not to. Ill just say that who he is and has always most definitely affected our father and son relationship where we arent close and dont think we ever will be. For one, i dont know if hes being honest about who he is or his past. I have father issues unfortunately due to this. Even now, who he is is getting in the way of things he should have handled. I strive not to be like him at all. :yeshrug: dont know what his issue is but its looking like narcissistic personality disorder, antisocial personality or some cluster b personality disorder going on. I feel like hes ready to do his antics anytime im around him so im very weary of him on some "eyes in the back of my head" shyt. If thats it, i dont wish that shyt on anybody because i see how it fukked him up. Dont neglect your mental health. That most definitely is important. I seen some shyt from him that i cant unsee that has made me really think like mental illness is no joke. I think i missed my calling to do psychology.
 
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My dad was gold medal winner in the Olympics at hide and seek

Scumbag hid from me pretty much all my life, turned around and sold my grandparents land when they put in their wills that they wanted me to inherit it

Found out he died from a random Google search... he never remarried, and his girlfriend and her kids told the funeral home that he had no kids, so when I wanted to look into his estate and got a copy of the death certificate the funeral home was pissed to learn they lied since I could've sued since they cremated him..

fukk that piece of shyt :manny:
 

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No. Then he wondered why once I moved out I didn’t come around as much or reach out. He treated me the worst out of all my siblings. Was I an easy kid to deal with? No. But still.
 

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My dad is cool. We talk maybe every other month. I know if I wanted or needed anything, he would come through. He’s retired in Belize right now chillin. He helped me with my citizenship and my daughters so I was there twice within the last 18 months.

Hopefully he comes see us in Atlanta when I get back. He has yet to see my two year old. He had my older sister, me and my younger brother. He did as best he could given our circumstances. I feel bad for my sister. He raised my brother and I into adulthood.

He was a stand up guy with a dark past.
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:manny: my father was not an easy man, but much of my core of being a man was built by observing him and how he conducted business.

I appreciated him while he was here
 

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Great relationship with my pops. Not so great with my mom. Used to smoke herb together a f watch the Howard Stern show back in the day. He went to bat for me as a kid and won custody of me. Did what he had to do to get his shyt together and keep me. Can't be mad at that.
 

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