This obsession with soft life. SMH
RIP
Black women cant handle the rigors of work life. They max out at academia...some say Black women are getting degrees to compete in corporate America, but they are doing this to avoid actively working.
Studies say since women have been in the workforce they are now seeing more health issues from working vs the times they were at home as the man worked.
Then you add in single mama motherhood...etc.
Black women want the stay at home lifestyle but are conflicted about having their own and having control of their relationship for power balance. Because if the man is the breadwinner and you cannot match it, the man can feel free to oppress you financially or cheat on you, is what they feel.