Dime Piece ‘My husband isn’t my type’

[Crude]

What do you mean settling?


If you got $3000 for a down payment on a Ferarri, but they point you towards a Hyundai dealership, is that settling?


If a breh who works as a garbage man couldn't get Rhianna, so he gets Keisha at the burger king drive-thru, is that settling?

Settling as in you’re never going to get 100 percent of what you want and you’ll have to learn to live with some things.

 

[Samori Toure]

It seems like arranged marriages might be making a comeback if these women keep being disappointed by y'all dudes.

 

[skeetsinternal]

She prayed and settled for coli breh

She basically got man so she don't got to get a dog and die alone. Food looks nasty and wtf ..he taking the garbage out too

 

[phcitywarrior]

Being in great shape is an advantage in dating for anyone, of either gender. Even if you’re a celebrity. Humans like nice bodies. That’s like saying having confidence isn’t an advantage. Even if you have it all, you’re adding 2-3 points to yourself at least if you have an attractive build. It ain’t everything though, which I hope is your point.

/thread.

No one is even saying you have to look like an NFL wideout, but just height and weight proportionate.

When you look good, you feel good, and other people take notice. Your shape is one of the few things you can actually control.

 

[Wargames]

this woman is not even attractive enough to verbalize this.

True but from what I seen the way women work, her being less attractive than most of them mean that most of them don't consider her a threat and/or what she got is also not unattainable for them since they are better than her, so they will listen to her.

Meanwhile as men we would do the opposite based on the assumption that what would a person worse off than us understand about about getting bytches since they don't look like they get bytches. Even if the advice was solid, and they was married to a bad bytch, we would disregard it based on the source seeming like they are worse than us at getting bytches outside of that single bytch.

It's a subtle shift based on gender dynamics. It kind of fits into the idea that the majority of women dress up for approval and compliments from other women, whereas men dress up to attract bytches. Basically women work more on the assumption attention (and opportunity) is going to come eventually and men work on the assumption “I have to go out there and get it”. So men scrutinize people’s relationship based on our own experience. While women believe things just happen, like a woman getting a guy to like her even if she didn't like him.

 

[Ahadi]

These two post might be the realest post I ever posted on the coli because BW keep proving me right


I am leaning towards cacs as her type but it wouldn't surprise me if she like hood adjacent men.....people thought I was being dramatic when I said majority of millennial and Gen Z BW don't like regular and nerdy BM (it's a difference between nerdy BM and regular BM) but TikTok,twitter and facebook proves me right every day Hell Gen Z BW don't even like BM that's not hood but know how to dress they call them "sassy" yall gotta understand BW code language and what they mean when they say they like men that dress "D BOY FRESH"

1. Hood adjacent niqqas
2. Hood niqqas
3. Studs who act like hood niqqas
4.Travis Kelce/ Jon b cacs
5.regular cacs
6.fashion forward

These types are controllable for women

 

[KidJSoul]

I really see every day why the women in our community is only married at 25% rate today and its really going to drop down lower once the silent generation and early born baby boomers fall off

They minds are not wrapped in reality when it comes to mates until majority of they time , they been ran through and beat down physically and verbally by other dirty nikkas

Its crazy how the most average to below average women still want top tier men. How these women who look like Shrek all want Morris Chestnut or Shemar Moore.

I see this on facebook a lot too. You have a bunch of below attractive women doing the most in the comments.

Because men still reward them for it

Not necessarily...plenty of attractive women out here getting ran through and discarded. 90s dimes that we lusted after overplaying their hands and chasing the wrong dudes only to end up old and alone is a weekly thread on here.

She is doing exactly what we say women should do, rejecting superficial BS and getting with a real dude that is down for her. And yet all anyone can focus on is her looks, thereby only enforcing the very superficial BS that we rail against if its a chick that is all about a dude's money.

Obviously, she look good enough to him and that's all that matters. The point is that she learned a lesson that far too many people never learn and she is married and happy.

She don't have to upload it online and phrase it like that while he is taking out the trash

No woman would want their man speaking like that about them

Ugly broads love bad mouthing their mates as if they're refined or the total package.

Because they resent the man for even being desperate enough to date her

I'm almost 37, never been a gym rat (I do exercise, but only do the gym maybe 1-2x a year), and my entire life could be a film on women falling all over me

Men don't need no gym to catch attractive women, most women not concerned with that shyt

Need? No. Is it a great great advantage that changes the dynamic with most women? Absolutely.

Gym/looks just amplifies what is already there. It's not the only thing but it makes everything better

 

[StretfordRed]

TheColi‘s comprehension skills are at an all time low to let this thread get to 3 pages.

She didn’t say “Isn’t” as capitalised in the video This place is getting more simple by the day.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

At this point, you might as well approach the dimepiece broad as long as she isn't on that birdbrain behavior. It's actually easier and more tolerable than dealing with an average chick with an inflated attitude.

I've figured this out about 7 years ago.

This one chick was on me hard but I didn't find her attractive. We ended up fukking around but she was more demanding than any woman I've ever dealt with. She carried herself like she was the prize and I wanted her but I literally had zero interest in this woman. I was only fukking her because she was into me and I had nothing else going on. She would go on vacation with her friends and hit me up asking me for $500 to $1000. She would hit me up asking for bills or to buy her scrubs for work....or she wanted me to help her with her start a podcast and give her a vision for it (which is something she should have since it's hers).......She would get mad that I never liked her IG posts. All types of nonsense when she wasn't even my girlfriend, just a woman I fukked a few times.

You realize that if average women are demanding the same thing that baddies are, why am I even wasting energy messing with joints I don't like? And the sad thing is, if I liked the girl, I would have handled all these problems for shorty.

 

[Wild self]

I've figured this out about 7 years ago.

This one chick was on me hard but I didn't find her attractive. We ended up fukking around but she was more demanding than any woman I've ever dealt with. She carried herself like she was the prize and I wanted her but I literally had zero interest in this woman. I was only fukking her because she was into me and I had nothing else going on. She would go on vacation with her friends and hit me up asking me for $500 to $1000. She would hit me up asking for bills or to buy her scrubs for work....or she wanted me to help her with her start a podcast and give her a vision for it (which is something she should have since it's hers).......She would get mad that I never liked her IG posts. All types of nonsense when she wasn't even my girlfriend, just a woman I fukked a few times.

You realize that if average women are demanding the same thing that baddies are, why am I even wasting energy messing with joints I don't like? And the sad thing is, if I liked the girl, I would have handled all these problems for shorty.

Average women are overinflated in value since IG came out in 2012. It's like how the used cars market got high prices now: You might as well get the new one with virtually no prior ownership.

So go for the natural dimepiece that aint on the attention whoring shyt. Problem solved, since dudes are so thirsty and desperate nowadays while being scared of getting something better for themselves.

 

[Wild self]

1. Hood adjacent niqqas
2. Hood niqqas
3. Studs who act like hood niqqas
4.Travis Kelce/ Jon b cacs
5.regular cacs
6.fashion forward

These types are controllable for women

Yep. The old school regular black man that has a regular blue collar job, might as well get a busted/fat Latina chick SMH.

Its social programming to punish any black man that aint some millionaire ahit that is doing anything constructive.

 

[King Poetic]

The other nikkas who fukked and used you said the same thing. You wasn’t their type

U was just a easy fukk and someone they can sleep they head on the couch on until they find something else and better

These average and especially below average broads really think because they got fukked NOT MARRIED to pretty smooth talking Eddie they believe those type of nikkas are really looking for them not knowing they are just used as triple A league practice till they get a pretty woman

 

[International Playa]

Dating hierarchy is fukked.

Average women have these high expectations & high standards they see on social media or a high value dude fukked her but never wifed her, she has the same expectations.

Most average dudes know their level early, they accept their wife might not be the hottest but aslong as he's attracted to her & she meets his basic needs, he's fine with it.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Yep. The old school regular black man that has a regular blue collar job, might as well get a busted/fat Latina chick SMH.

Its social programming to punish any black man that aint some millionaire ahit that is doing anything constructive.

Damn… never thought of it like this

Facts at the last statement too

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Dating hierarchy is fukked.

Average women have these high expectations & high standards they see on social media or a high value dude fukked her but never wifed her, she has the same expectations.

Most average dudes know their level early, they accept their wife might not be the hottest but aslong as he's attracted to her & she meets his basic needs, he's fine with it.

This too

For the longest I thought it was just me


For the longest I heard water seeks its own level but most females I see out here have a very skewed perception of their level in America.

It’s why I prefer to be in places with less US propaganda and programming.. even though most of the world already is against black men in particular.. especially at home.

If you not a millionaire or hood nikka you got to pretend