Nah, she sounds like a calm girl, a nerd, but a chill young girl...she might be

so I want to know how you came across her op

and I don't get what you man are talking about saying she sounds exhaustive. You have to understand, she has to put up with lame cac's 24/7...that will drain a nicca soul fr.
What i will say is she needs to get off cac's diccs and stop looking for white beauty standard approval and move out of iowa as soon as she can
Lastly, any mixed couple, especially the white parent of a mixed kid should be told raising their mixed kid in a vastly majority white environment/town/city/state is nigh on abuse, especially girls. It's not healthy for kids to grow up in places where they don't see and/or interact with peers that look like them.