Direct Approah or Indirect Approach in the club

[The Burger King]

Other night I went to the club for the first time (I found one for people under 21). I approached a few broads and I was pretty direct about my intentions. Conversations went like this:

Me: Hey, what's your name?
Her: My name is ___.

If she seemed interested then I would invite her back to my place.

Me: Well ___ my friends and I are having a party at my place, do you want to come?

I tried it with three girls. One said she wanted to but she was with her sister and they had to leave. Another one said she was interested but she was being an attention whore just fukking around. Last one flat out declined.

I'm going back in tonight to try to pull some ass. Should I stick with that approach or should I try to be more diplomatic?

 

[neko_804]

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[WaveGang]

Direct bruh. Just try be more smooth about it.

 

[The Burger King]

Direct bruh. Just try be more smooth about it.

So what do you think wasn't smooth about my approach, if you don't mind me asking?

 

[MikeyC]

Indirect approaches in a club?

How does that work?

 

[platinum f1a$k]

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[WaveGang]

So what do you think wasn't smooth about my approach, if you don't mind me asking?

Sounds like you had your intentions planned out while talking.

You gotta let that shyt slide in like "Oh snap, what you doin after this blah blah"

Reminds me of my friend who's line is "no after party?" lol

 

[NoGutsNoGLory]

Indirect approaches in a club?

How does that work?

Casually go near her drink while she isnt paying attention.....and put something i there to increase ur odds...........

 

[platinum f1a$k]

Direct bruh. Just try be more smooth about it.

truth

Casually go near her drink while she isnt paying attention.....and put something i there to increase ur odds...........

 

[Malik1time]

Casually go near her drink while she isnt paying attention.....and put something i there to increase ur odds...........

 

[Reginald Noble]

Honestly in the club it's all about looks and money and flash

If they are not approaching you - Your success rate will be like 5-10% at best.

One night chicks need to pump up their ego by fukking what they perceive as "high value males"

If you don't have bottle service that's one strike against you
If you don't roll up in front and get in on VIP status that's another strike
If you don't look dressed to kill and have female friends surrounding you that's three strikes you're out

You can't be some average dude working average angles and even pick up a snuffalufugus these days. You'll still fail.

Everyone's egoes pumped up beyond what they really are and a lot of facades and appearance bullshyt in the club.

This goes for triple to quadruple if you the type of dude that females don't gawk at in public in general. You're gonna have a hard time.

My suggestion would be to save your time and money and try other venues. But be careful because even some lounges and jazz concerts women be on that

 

[The Burger King]

Honestly in the club it's all about looks and money and flash

If they are not approaching you - Your success rate will be like 5-10% at best.

One night chicks need to pump up their ego by fukking what they perceive as "high value males"

If you don't have bottle service that's one strike against you
If you don't roll up in front and get in on VIP status that's another strike
If you don't look dressed to kill and have female friends surrounding you that's three strikes you're out

You can't be some average dude working average angles and even pick up a snuffalufugus these days. You'll still fail.

Everyone's egoes pumped up beyond what they really are and a lot of facades and appearance bullshyt in the club.

This goes for triple to quadruple if you the type of dude that females don't gawk at in public in general. You're gonna have a hard time.

My suggestion would be to save your time and money and try other venues. But be careful because even some lounges and jazz concerts women be on that

I disagree with most of this, breh. Maybe it's cause the club I was at wasn't upscale, but a lot of the women looked good and a lot of broke ass swagless dudes were still getting it in.

Indirect approaches in a club?

How does that work?

By indirect I mean like, playing the friendly role and just talking with her for a lil bit.

 

[Reginald Noble]

I disagree with most of this, breh. Maybe it's cause the club I was at wasn't upscale, but a lot of the women looked good and a lot of broke ass swagless dudes were still getting it in.

So this is the classic "either/or" type situation that most American Men find themselves in:

Either you have to be:

- 6 feet
- Six Pack
- Six Certs
- Six Figures
- Sixty Carat Rims

OR:

- Criminal Element
- Drug Connect
- Large Set and Bang openly on rivals at least once per week
- Low Ridah Ghetto Tricked Out on a Budget (or Hot Stolen Parts/Gear)

If you average, need not apply.

80/20 rule applies:

10% of the Men in our community are currently involved in illicit activities.
10% of Black Men probably make $250k+ (individually)

Black American Women are not trying to be down or invest in any one in-between that spectrum. I don't know how old you are but that has been my observation for these 30 years of life.

 

[neko_804]

So this is the classic "either/or" type situation that most American Men find themselves in:

Either you have to be:

- 6 feet
- Six Pack
- Six Certs
- Six Figures
- Sixty Carat Rims

OR:

- Criminal Element
- Drug Connect
- Large Set and Bang openly on rivals at least once per week
- Low Ridah Ghetto Tricked Out on a Budget (or Hot Stolen Parts/Gear)

If you average, need not apply.

80/20 rule applies:

10% of the Men in our community are currently involved in illicit activities.
10% of Black Men probably make $250k+ (individually)

Black American Women are not trying to be down or invest in any one in-between that spectrum. I don't know how old you are but that has been my observation for these 30 years of life.

 

[MikeyC]

By indirect I mean like, playing the friendly role and just talking with her for a lil bit.

Play the "friendly" role?

In a club?

If you want a flashy 6'5" baller type nikka to come scoop her from right up under your nose, go for it, breh.