Do whatever you want to do. It's all trial and error.Other night I went to the club for the first time (I found one for people under 21). I approached a few broads and I was pretty direct about my intentions. Conversations went like this:
Me: Hey, what's your name?
Her: My name is ___.
If she seemed interested then I would invite her back to my place.
Me: Well ___ my friends and I are having a party at my place, do you want to come?
I tried it with three girls. One said she wanted to but she was with her sister and they had to leave. Another one said she was interested but she was being an attention whore just fukking around. Last one flat out declined.
I'm going back in tonight to try to pull some ass. Should I stick with that approach or should I try to be more diplomatic?
Direct Approah or Indirect Approach in the club
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Ghpstface
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@The Burger King you only talked to 3 girls get your numbers up and 2nd be more charming you sound like a serial killer no offense
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Doobie Doo
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I wouldn't holla at a woman in the club but if I did indirect is better. Too many direct cats in her grill. Move opposite of the other nikka
How do I sound like a serial kille?
Two of the girls I spoke to were giving me eye contact before I went over though.
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DatBoiHawk
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Lol man nikkas are hating so hard bruh. I probably wouldn't do it, but your approach is funny as hell. I'm actually going to the club tonight myself. I like to wear business attire to the club like slacks with the button up shirt tucked in and a tie. While dressing like that at the club I've had women come up to me telling me how good I smelled kissing on me and shyt bro and I'm just a regular guy, but I still have not taken any chicks home yet. Honestly though you can say anything you want to these girls in the club just don't be a creep with it. I've grabbed girl's asses and everything told em they got a phat ass booty and all that shyt bruh and 9/10 they just laugh.
desjardins
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Try to get the number thru convo and finesse a Netflix and chill from there a couple days after meeting
Getting bytches to come home with you on the first holla in the club you either spending $1000 on bottles and all eyes on you that night or you scooping a dirt bytch who go home with a different nikka each week
Getting bytches to come home with you on the first holla in the club you either spending $1000 on bottles and all eyes on you that night or you scooping a dirt bytch who go home with a different nikka each week
you're doing it all wrong fami'm under 21 as well, don't listen to these old ass nikkas they aren't with the times
first of all, under 21 clubs are horrible
what you want to do is go outside the clubs, in hollywood they are all densely populated with tons of girls, idk where you are but hopefully in a city that matters and has some volume
chat up girls, float the idea to go get something to eat or a milkshake, then just lead and keep energy up
if you must be in the club, you're going to have to have fun first and make the girl laugh or at least feel comfortable around you... when you hook interest in conversation, let go of her and gauge the reaction.. if practically pulling you back, then keep playfully disengaging. if indifferent or barely cares, then keep building rapport until she starts investing more in the interaction than you. then you lead. you lead. lead. lead. lead. "hey, me and my friends going _____, come with"
you're way too pushy, impatient, and desperate... girls can sense that easily. think as if you have three 10s waiting for you at home and you'd be fine with bringing another home but aren't dependent whatsoever on anything happening. have fun with her and then plant the seed. germinate the seed, find where sunlight is, moisten the soil, indent the soil. you're dkipping everything.
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Play the "friendly" role?
In a club?
If you want a flashy 6'5" baller type nikka to come scoop her from right up under your nose, go for it, breh.
