Dispelling coLIES: nikkas automatically recieving a harem of young dimes as they get older

[Rusty Kuntz]

These type threads are always funny.

 

[Yup]

I had that mentality once. You want to have things correct before you step to a woman. And you think you'll have to settle if you don't. But there are hundreds of women out there who'll support you (emotionally) and be with you as long as you're actively working towards your goals and improving yourself. Can't be a bum but, maybe you're an associate today and got plans of being manager tomorrow. A lot of chicks would rock with you. Thats how you find wifey With your mentality when you start making money you're not gonna trust any women because they didn't build with you from the beginning.

IS the current girl you are with building with you? And what is the male equivalent of a man building with a woman?

 

[Wiles]

You can be corny at any age

 

[DarkHorse23]

Yeah. But from a man's perspective, what would I have in common with a 20 year old?

Maybe you just wanna have "fun"....

 

[DarkHorse23]

If anyone is waiting until they are 15 years older to start pulling broads then they already lost.

The only dudes I see who have problems getting women, are dudes with 0 confidence. That's it.

-I have flabbynsick friends who can pull any girl in the club
-I have skinnynweak friends who can pull girls
-I have old friends (5-7 years older) who get girls when they flash the wallet
-I have a short friend who can get girls (the height struggle is a legit excuse... i feel bad for him)

Long story short, anyone who is having a lot of trouble getting women probably isn't trying hard enough..... unless they are short.

What type of women are they pulling though? I don't believe your fabby n sick friend can pull ANY girl either btw.

 

[DarkHorse23]

I don't look like Lance Gross, i'm not the life of the party type dude, and I still do ok with women. And women also generally aren't going to fukk a non famous dude who looks like them if they give off bad vibes, they are who they are cuz of their status.

If you really need to develop basic social skills, just talk to random women at the supermarket, park, or anywhere and strike up normal conversation without any expectations. I would say don't even try take it beyond being friendly. That will help you a lot.

Really?

You sure?

 

[Gold]

What type of women are they pulling though? I don't believe your fabby n sick friend can pull ANY girl either btw.

I mean, the two i'm thinking of are very popular in the community. 1 is a DJ and the other is a former linebacker for TCU who isn't really flabbynsick but is def not in his playing form. But the way they carry themselves, you would think they were movie stars .

But yeah... i am exaggerating a bit when I say "any girl"

But most wouldn't be too much of a stretch.

 

[Kid McNamara]

But you gotta be in the right shape to do it. If you are rich, or good looking, have game etc. then you'll do fine but it wasn't the age that helped now was it?

Your whole post is useless because this applies regardless of age. Every other thread in this sub-forum is about how young girls only want the top-tier cats and then they reach 30 and want to settle for a nerdy type or regular dude.

Now y'all switch it up and act like young dudes, regardless of their position in society, have a shot at all the fine young ladies and old dudes have to be exceptional in order to get 'em.

Y'all need to find a narrative and stick to it. Let me help you...

You will be successful with women as long as you are not washed.

If you're a fat 20 year old, you ain't gettin' traction. If you're fat 40 year old you ain't gettin' traction.

Who on the coli out here hollering at chicks 15 years younger than them? shyt I'm 32 and I don't even check for chicks under 25 and that's only a seven year difference.

Anyone who has kept up with themselves. Truth is, most guys in their thirties are leaving younger girls behind because they don't feel they can appeal to that age group. Has little to do with "emotional maturity," but you'll never catch a guy admitting it.

if you have been taking care of your body, then you will be able to capitalize off your increased earnings in your 30s

if you are then they wont help as much

Exactly. If you washed, you washed...at any age.

to have younger women as an older man, you have to be exceptional
you can't be like the older guys women see daily, the kind that are everywhere or you'll just blend into the background
you have to be as attractive as a younger man, as interesting/fresh as a younger man, as energetic and as full of vitality as a younger man
you gotta compete
you can't be the same as the dudes on the bus or at rite aid filling their prescription

But you can't do this as a younger guy either right? If you want a grip of women you can't just be some chump who falls into the background, doesn't work on attractiveness, and doesn't appeal to what women want and like.

What's the difference?

If she is very young her homegirls are going to clown her so naw it ain't happening.

Ask your average 20-25 year old chick. Who they want, diddy 45 or chris brown 26? Diddy got more money but chris got more social appeal.

There is some truth to the bolded. Younger girls are into being able to talk about and show off dudes to their friends. If a guy doesn't match a certain profile she may drop on sight. Lot of variables though. If it's the club scene or a heavy social scene, then yes. If a guy is meeting girls who are solo or in small groups, it won't matter.

Regarding your Diddy example, I tend to stay away from "if you ask 10 girls what they want in the perfect situation" conversations because it's ridiculous and doesn't prove anything.

If Lenny Kravitz (50), Michael Ealy (42), Tyson Beckford (44), or Boris Kodjoe (42) were walking around a college campus, or hitting up a college bar, or shopping at the whole foods down the street from the college, their age wouldn't prevent them from getting any of what they wanted.

Whether a girl might "want Chris Brown" more, isn't really the idea being discussed.

 

[JamilALAmin]

Imma need ALL of yall to shut the fukk up. I got no play in my early teens, got more play in my late teens, and don't have to do shyt now
and I hit it off with women (even if im on my"Ew, cooties" wave right now). If history has taught me anything, between weightlifting, teaching myself
a few different life skills, and earning more money, I should be eating well in a couple years, and yall can't tell me any diffferent.

ALL my chips are bet on 30. If that don't work, imma get the rest of my funding for my doomsday device and im taking everybody with me

Yeah don't believe the hype breh. I'm 2 weeks shy of 31 and I've never ate better when it comes to women.

I was in my 20's and was scrawny as fukk. Im 6'3 and my weight back then was 140-160. Now in my 30s and im 215. I also got more money to do shyt like drop bread on a gym membership, get facials every other month and get my teeth whitened once a year. All that equals me looking better than I ever have which in turns means more women.

My pop's is 65, single and he go on dates like 3 times a week. He has mostly older women but we talking about Black queens in the 40-60 range that could still very much get it. But then he also got a few chick's younger than me. Yeah he probably tricking but these young broads genuinely fukk with him. I can tell. shyt is crazy. Watching him made me realize that as a Black man if you stay on your grind and take care of your body, and don't have a bunch of babies running around that you can play the field as long as you want. The game will of course change but there will always be soft targets to go after.

 

[Swirv]

Some brehs got it and some dont plain and simple. Money has nothin to do with it imo unless that moves a chick. If anyone wants to learn holla at me.

 

[Yup]

Yeah don't believe the hype breh. I'm 2 weeks shy of 31 and I've never ate better when it comes to women.

I was in my 20's and was scrawny as fukk. Im 6'3 and my weight back then was 140-160. Now in my 30s and im 215. I also got more money to do shyt like drop bread on a gym membership, get facials every other month and get my teeth whitened once a year. All that equals me looking better than I ever have which in turns means more women.

My pop's is 65, single and he go on dates like 3 times a week. He has mostly older women but we talking about Black queens in the 40-60 range that could still very much get it. But then he also got a few chick's younger than me. Yeah he probably tricking but these young broads genuinely fukk with him. I can tell. shyt is crazy. Watching him made me realize that as a Black man if you stay on your grind and take care of your body, and don't have a bunch of babies running around that you can play the field as long as you want. The game will of course change but there will always be soft targets to go after.

Maybe or maybe not. I don't understand the appeal of playing the field past your 40s, that is very common with bm.

 

[JamilALAmin]

Maybe or maybe not. I don't understand the appeal of playing the field past your 40s, that is very common with bm.

fukk outta here. Everyone isn't the same. Just because you want to get married doesnt mean everyone else does. That shyt isn't for me. And I ain't even saying that on some "oh I want to drag broads until my casket drop" type shyt. I'm social and i love to flirt with women but at the end of the day I'm a loner and I'm happier alone. I can go out and demo with a female whenever I want, but other times I just want to by myself. I've dragged plenty of females in my time. Probably had more one night stands than most dudes have had sexual partners period. And i got tired of that honestly and tried to go the relationship route. That didn't work, but not cuz I was a dog. It didn't work because I realized that my happiness in life doesnt have shyt to do with whether I'm single or married.

Can't fukking stand when folks try to project they own beliefs about life onto somebody else.

 

[Yup]

fukk outta here. Everyone isn't the same. Just because you want to get married doesnt mean everyone else does. That shyt isn't for me. And I ain't even saying that on some "oh I want to drag broads until my casket drop" type shyt. I'm social and i love to flirt with women but at the end of the day I'm a loner and I'm happier alone. I can go out and demo with a female whenever I want, but other times I just want to by myself. I've dragged plenty of females in my time. Probably had more one night stands than most dudes have had sexual partners period. And i got tired of that honestly and tried to go the relationship route. That didn't work, but not cuz I was a dog. It didn't work because I realized that my happiness in life doesnt have shyt to do with whether I'm single or married.

Can't fukking stand when folks try to project they own beliefs about life onto somebody else.

How am I projecting ? You think that you are only loner that's existed in the world ? I made my statement based on what I have noticed....I a not forcing you in a relationship.

And people misuse the word "loner" if you were truly a loner you wouldn't be social. Or seeking women for casual relationships.

Some people are not interested in bwing tied to someone for their lives....it doesn't mean you are a loner just someone that doesn't value commitment.

 

[Kid McNamara]

If they don't improve themselves yeah.

Y'all make these statements then add painfully obvious caveats to them which render the original statement useless.

Like, "hey y'all, you get fat as you age." *Thirty posts and many rebuttals later* "Unless you go to the gym and follow a strict diet."

Men in their mid to late thirties can still flex with a late 20's to early 30's girl. I see it all the time. Almost every chick has a story about how they were with some older dude that had stability and money to take her out.

Now these dudes talking about flexing with 20 year olds at 50 are on something else.

nikkas say this...but wouldn't want their twenty year old girl around certain dudes in the wild.

When nikkas spit that ultra-abstract, transcendental art game:


Or...

That cool, deep, smooth passion game:


Your 20 year old gon be locking eyes with dudes talmbout "I uh, umm *hair twirl*"

 

[Jahmal]

Who on the coli out here hollering at chicks 15 years younger than them? shyt I'm 32 and I don't even check for chicks under 25 and that's only a seven year difference.

I'm 34 and I smashed an 18 year old lastnight