Unless it was for money then
Dispelling coLIES: nikkas automatically recieving a harem of young dimes as they get older
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Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
welp that's your perference so stick to it, I wouldnt give a woman over 30 a serious chance even if I was the same age. Prefer younger.
See and none of these dudes have a problem with you saying that but the minute I say I wouldn't date a guy 10 years older than me I'm "ageist" and I "judge people before I get to know them".
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Nah, there's a clear cap. Your other resources might reel women in, but past 35-40+ it certainly isn't your looks anymore.men get better with age IF they continue to keep themselves on point, it's all work. You ain't gonna transform into idris elba at 30 if your still
at 29.
Brehs here are just aware of that advantage and gawdy with it
Yes! It's like they all read from the same creepy old man handbook. They'll get all in your personal space too. They're like wannabe pedos.omg, I know. Do they call you baby girl too?
what creeps me out the most is they'll say "you look like a baby" then ask for my number
Um. Ghouls
All Star
*brb
Eta - there are single folks in everyone's varying age groups....if you still simping over age 25, you will prob be a simping non ass getter forever. Better go get married to tie down some puss
There is no harem of dimes for old nikkas unless they rich or they mindfukk much younger girls on some predatory shyt.
Define this
Is that why they called me every negative thing under the sun because I said I don't want to date a 38 year old?
Old guys creep me out, sure I'll talk to them but the minute I find out they're interested in me I chills and it feels like i'm gonna throw up.
Here is the thing we all age and get old everyday on this planet. Today you are younger than 38 and say I would never date anyone that age.
One day you will be 38 and if you are single you may say hey....I would date a 48 or 50 year old if his shyt is together.
Age is relative but the difference in age is the same.....and your view of what is really old changes as you get older.
At one time when you were a child you thought 21 was old. Then when you hit 21 you thought naw that ain't really old that is young.....see what I mean.
The older you get the more women expect you to have. The only older guys struggling are guys who let themselves go physically and guys who have nothing going on in their lives
I'm 27 and the game has gotten easier. Not harder. I was gonna brag but never mind.
and guys who have nothing going on in their lives
I'm 27 and the game has gotten easier. Not harder. I was gonna brag but never mind.
LadySimone
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I think the thought of this is what helps a lot of these guys sleep at night. You should have seen how they attacked me because I said I wouldn't date a guy 15 years older than me.When most women don't even date guys 15 years older than them.
That thread was an eye opener.
There are always exceptions to the rule, but generally speaking if you are lame (as in you don't get any women) in your 20s it isn't going to change, you have some type of character flaw. You can be a stereotypical lame and still get women if you own your lameness and don't fear rejection. Those are the type of guys this rule can probably apply to. But if you have no success at all....I mean I guess anything is possible right. Sorry if I struck a nerve
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Maybe it will be different when I get old but big age gaps are weird to me.
I don't control what creeps me out but it always seems wrong. If a 23 year old wants to date a 38 year old she can but I'm not interested in them. I know, right. It was kinda sad.
What's hilarious is there was a study saying men are invisible to younger women after 39 and these dudes REFUSED to believe that even though younger women were agreeing with it.
Depends on what you did in your 20s. If you're some flabby, out of shape dude who never made any career moves, of course you're not going to be attracting women. If you stayed in shape, took care of yourself and still look young and you have a nice career going and no kids, you'll be a catch to a lot of women in your 30s. 40s is another story though.
Knuckles Red
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Maybe its because of the way I was brought up (coming from a 2 parent home), but why is there this need to have a harem of women in your 30s and 40s? Isn't the goal to get married to one woman, and raise a family? Seems like people on here want to live out this James Bond-esque fantasy when they get older. That doesn't seem realistic.
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LadySimone
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Well at that age they meant to be married. That there are so many young black men who expect to be single and ready to mingle in their 40s is sad. You know these dudes going to have kids. Their kids going to see them trying to date girls instead if being in a functioning marriage.
The black community y'all.