Dispelling the myth: Black girls are not attracted to "thugs" or "bad boys"

[Ohene]

In fact, they are more attracted to nikkas who they see are doing their thing or are ambitious. If a girl ain't feeling you and you think its because you're too "regular" or "nerdy" and she only likes flashy dudes or thugs, youre wrong. She just doesn't see any potential for you to turn that nerdiness into anything great. Thats not to say thugs dont get love, its just that the thugs who get love are very ambitious too. If its a bummy thug that makes a living off robbing convenience stores and sticking up corner boys like Omar, he aint gonna get all that much love because of his job but because he's that notorious. (Hes gay but just an example.) It's the kingpins that get the love, and this goes for all facets of life. On average, a bank teller isn't gonna attract more women than a portfolio manager who's getting 5 minute interview on Bloomberg TV. A legal clerk isn't going to attract more women than a corporate lawyer.


Point blank, if a girl sees you making moves, whether it be through music, school or selling drugs she is going to want to be a part of it. It's in their nature to latch on to the best of the best for both status and mating purposes. I forgot the psychological term but it's pretty simple. If you aint a part of that 10%, dont get bitter brehs . Just work on yourself and eventually they WILL take notice, one way or another.

If this is obvious and redundant, my bad. I'm just thinking out loud

 

[its_normal]

Bullshyt, I've seen a yout with money and prospects get no gyal because he has no swag yet theres man with nothing who a bag of gyal line up for because he has swag.

 

[86\*/98]

Why are there so many omar type nikkas with attractive college educated baby mothers?

I think what your saying rings true today because the thug lifestyle got played out. Women 25+ who used to be walking cum receptacles for pookie n em are acting brand spanking new. I know more than a few thugged out nikkas who all give the same "she don't fukk with real nikkas no more" speech.

Most of these chicks are attracted to whatever image is popping at the moment.

 

[Malik]

Black women like thugs. I like morally loose big booty bytches. We even

 

[QuintessentialBM]

Yup... Just what I expected........

 

[Reggie]

Some black women equate being with a thug to being protected and being safe. I don't know why but several have told me this over the years. They look at a guy who may stick to himself and is working toward something as a square and someone who is soft. U can walk up to a chick with a nice suit on and actually try to talk to her like a person, and she may not give you the time of the day. But the next man may have on a baggy pair of jeans a big ass t-shirt and some J's on and she might feel he is the greatest thing since sliced bread. She doesn't take into account that he has multiple baby momma's no job and a record long as a mile. While the guy in the suit is the one with a 401k plan no kids his own house and never even had a speeding ticket. But they don't want that guy until they have been played numerous times by multiple thugs. Then they wonder why the so called square nikka looks his nose down at them.

 

[Sharp]

Women are attracted to confidence and swag.

 

[MikeBrownsJob]

Some black women equate being with a thug to being protected and being safe. I don't know why but several have told me this over the years. They look at a guy who may stick to himself and is working toward something as a square and someone who is soft. U can walk up to a chick with a nice suit on and actually try to talk to her like a person, and she may not give you the time of the day. But the next man may have on a baggy pair of jeans a big ass t-shirt and some J's on and she might feel he is the greatest thing since sliced bread. She doesn't take into account that he has multiple baby momma's no job and a record long as a mile. While the guy in the suit is the one with a 401k plan no kids his own house and never even had a speeding ticket. But they don't want that guy until they have been played numerous times by multiple thugs. Then they wonder why the so called square nikka looks his nose down at them.

most brothas in a suit don't have a 401k or home. Most have a beamer, debt and a condo with outdated appliances.

 

[Ohene]

Bullshyt, I've seen a yout with money and prospects get no gyal because he has no swag yet theres man with nothing who a bag of gyal line up for because he has swag.

He's likely a herb. It's not about money and material wealth when it comes to these hoes; they dont have x-ray vision. They cant whats in your wallet. They don't know what car in that parking lot is yours.


But if he was really getting it, his confidence would have risen as a result subtle changes would probably occur. Maybe he has an aura of happiness when he walks around, maybe he's more friendly and smiles a lot more, maybe his posture is better. These are the things women notice. If not he's probably a herb. Like Sharp said confidence is key and above that is status if you ask me. When your shyt is right, confidence increases and naturally you'll just find yourself getting more women without even trying anymore. I am a suburban nikka, farthest thing from a thug but I be mackin on mad bytches nowadays . One of the most prevalent things I hear in the getting-to-know-eachother phase is about how I'm so ambitious. Tell a girl you tryna work for Goldman Sachs and they love that shyt.

 

[Ohene]

@Emperor Sol, come inside and tell me what makes this thread a one star caliber one. What have I said thats incorrect?

 

[Ain't That Something]

most brothas in a suit don't have a 401k or home. Most have a beamer, debt and a condo with outdated appliances.

I'm not in a suit and I have a retiremnet investment plan, a house in my name




















But i drive a bucket tho

 

[Ohene]

Some black women equate being with a thug to being protected and being safe. I don't know why but several have told me this over the years. They look at a guy who may stick to himself and is working toward something as a square and someone who is soft. U can walk up to a chick with a nice suit on and actually try to talk to her like a person, and she may not give you the time of the day. But the next man may have on a baggy pair of jeans a big ass t-shirt and some J's on and she might feel he is the greatest thing since sliced bread. She doesn't take into account that he has multiple baby momma's no job and a record long as a mile. While the guy in the suit is the one with a 401k plan no kids his own house and never even had a speeding ticket. But they don't want that guy until they have been played numerous times by multiple thugs. Then they wonder why the so called square nikka looks his nose down at them.

Interesting. Maybe it's just me then. I'm the nerdiest nikka there is, I analyze financial statements and corpations for my portfolio in my spare time. But even this last week I just bagged 4 chicks. One 32 year old white chick. One sexy ass 22 year old carribean milf (why she gotta have a kid ) with a very hard upbringing, a nigerian aspiring nurse, and some blonde italian pawg looking like she from Laguna beach. 4 girls with very different backgrounds but when they heard about the kinda shyt I was into, they found it refreshing above all else. Thus, I cant help but feel that this assertion is a little bit exaggerated . I mean...baggy jeans, Js and a tall tee...in 2013? nikka please, real thugs, the ones thats getting money don't dress like that.

I know light skinned pretty boys who would get their meat lumped if they ever went to the hood but they still getting mad p*ssy. Usually its because they're funny and "known" in the city. An example is of this random youtube cat named Marlon Palmer from Toronto who got famous off youtube videos. Keep thinking that its being too safe, more likely than not you just don't know how to entice a girl into having a good conversation.

 

[Sierra Mist]

lol you don't even believe that shyt.

 

[Ohene]

3 one stars
Maybe it isn't a myth

 

[Illuminatos]

22 year old MILF?