Dispelling the myth: Black girls are not attracted to "thugs" or "bad boys"

[FreedS[ohh]lave]

Can't really fix ugly

At the end of the day, we all wanna be with someone who is attractive to us physically/sexually. I guarantee you nearly every man alive with "swag" toward the opposite sex developed that swag when he was young and realized the girls at school or in the neighborhood were drawn to him. I also guarantee you nearly every man alive labeled "lame" or who lacks "swag" is that way because at one point, he was doing the same things as his better looking friends and coming up EMPTY HANDED, causing a lack of confidence. Not because he did something wrong, just cuz the girls wanted the cute one, not the ugly one. And nobody wants to think maybe it's cuz they're just ugly cuz that would mean it's completely beyond their control.

Confidence isn't some genetic trait. It is nurtured through a series of life experiences, successes and failures. If you have it, you've succeeded. If you don't, you've failed a lot, or focus a lot on your failures.

I'm sure there are exceptions but I'm going to go ahead and say physical appearance/looks are at the root of most of these situations - either directly or indirectly.

So what are we left with? An entire generation of people who, due to the multitude of perceived "options" thru social media, dating sites, etc. constantly think they can do BETTER than what they've had. The "bitter single black woman who overlooks all the good men" stereotype is probably a woman who isn't fine enough to get the attention of the man she really wants, or if she is, is too fukking mean or crazy to keep that attention. The "lame, soft, swagless guy" stereotype is probably an ugly duckling who's been rejected more often than not and has already been taught his station in life, so his lack of confidence toward the opposite sex was gained honestly, not because he's a lame inherently, but because the world has taught him he is lame. How else are you supposed to respond when you do the same shyt as the guy next to you, and maybe are smarter, funnier, wittier, etc. but he gets all the p*ssy and you get none? You're taught you don't deserve it so why keep putting yourself thru the same pain over and over?

So really the question remains - if you're one of those women whose p*ssy just can't get wet for anything less than Shemar Moore, you don't have a lot of recourse cuz the men you want are fukking the finest society has to offer, cuz they get to choose. If you're one of those men who is a 5 who wants a 9/10, you're clearly trying to outkick your coverage. So what is someone who isn't physically attractive enough to get who they want supposed to do? And don't say "dress better" "work out" cuz for many, that may HELP but not FIX anything. Ugly is ugly. Or average is average. What are these people supposed to do? Either be with someone who doesn't the juices flowing, or go on the internet and bytch that they can't have who they really want. There's really no winning here.

Trill shyt! even as a youngin when i was shy i had bytches all over me because of my looks it gave me such confidence in myself and abiltiy to attract women that i eventually became a monster :mjpls if i didnt get positive feedback early on i might have been in a shell for years but knowing you have that power over women because of how you look is a pretty great feeling for a young dude.

I glad you brought up looks because looks are hugely important to women evne moreso then men imo,womens who lives revolve around vanity looknig good judging others looks,im a piece of gabrage but i get women stricly off my looks and im aware of that which makes me trust them evne less then ugly guys who constantly get rejected because unlike them i infiltrated and got to the inside and heard what most women are about and how vain and shallow they really are.


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[Malik]

Yall can talk all that sh*t you want but, women are attracted to a certain type of energy. You can call it having swag, having confidence, being a bad boy, being alpha, etc. It has nothing to do with how attractive a man is. I've seen some ugly fukking nikkas swimming in p*ssy. So no...it's not because the nice guys are ugly It's because the nice guys can't get the p*ssy wet like bad boys can. Bad boys winning out here because they naturally know how to tap into that energy better than anyone.



But on a lighter note...nice guys may never be players but, there are girls out here for you and if you can't pull atleast one of them, you not trying b You can't change how your look. But it shouldn't matter as most of this sh*t whittles down to grooming. Make sure you hair/beard stay trimmed. Stay stocked with cologne. Hit the gym. It's no reason for you be 27 with a pot belly. Throw out all your gear. Restock your entire closet...get fly. The better you start to look, the more confident you'll feel and you'll be on the road to developing your swag If you're doing all of that, women will be looking your way, smiling, some even talking....and it's up to you to go close This again is assuming you're average looking like most men and not completely and utterly hideous...

 

[Michael9100]

Yall can talk all that sh*t you want but, women are attracted to a certain type of energy. You can call it having swag, having confidence, being a bad boy, being alpha, etc. It has nothing to do with how attractive a man is. I've seen some ugly fukking nikkas swimming in p*ssy. So no...it's not because the nice guys are ugly It's because the nice guys can't get the p*ssy wet like bad boys can. Bad boys winning out here because they naturally know how to tap into that energy better than anyone.



But on a lighter note...nice guys may never be players but, there are girls out here for you and if you can't pull atleast one of them, you not trying b You can't change how your look. But it shouldn't matter as most of this sh*t whittles down to grooming. Make sure you hair/beard stay trimmed. Stay stocked with cologne. Hit the gym. It's no reason for you be 27 with a pot belly. Throw out all your gear. Restock your entire closet...get fly. The better you start to look, the more confident you'll feel and you'll be on the road to developing your swag If you're doing all of that, women will be looking your way, smiling, some even talking....and it's up to you to go close This again is assuming you're average looking like most men and not completely and utterly hideous...

Don't you think there is more to life than that?

 

[R=G]

Lol@this thread....the premise borders on preposterous but a fun 1st page.

 

[Anothergirl]

Why Do You Hate Black Men Kola Boof? have you read this?

just read this chicks whole manifesto. and all i can say is










just

 

[Elle Driver]

23 pages!? I ain't even have to read more than one page, I could tell from jump that the peanut gallery came out in full force.

As for the topic at hand, no comment.

 

[Illuminatos]

Can't really fix ugly

At the end of the day, we all wanna be with someone who is attractive to us physically/sexually. I guarantee you nearly every man alive with "swag" toward the opposite sex developed that swag when he was young and realized the girls at school or in the neighborhood were drawn to him. I also guarantee you nearly every man alive labeled "lame" or who lacks "swag" is that way because at one point, he was doing the same things as his better looking friends and coming up EMPTY HANDED, causing a lack of confidence. Not because he did something wrong, just cuz the girls wanted the cute one, not the ugly one. And nobody wants to think maybe it's cuz they're just ugly cuz that would mean it's completely beyond their control.

Confidence isn't some genetic trait. It is nurtured through a series of life experiences, successes and failures. If you have it, you've succeeded. If you don't, you've failed a lot, or focus a lot on your failures.

I'm sure there are exceptions but I'm going to go ahead and say physical appearance/looks are at the root of most of these situations - either directly or indirectly.

So what are we left with? An entire generation of people who, due to the multitude of perceived "options" thru social media, dating sites, etc. constantly think they can do BETTER than what they've had. The "bitter single black woman who overlooks all the good men" stereotype is probably a woman who isn't fine enough to get the attention of the man she really wants, or if she is, is too fukking mean or crazy to keep that attention. The "lame, soft, swagless guy" stereotype is probably an ugly duckling who's been rejected more often than not and has already been taught his station in life, so his lack of confidence toward the opposite sex was gained honestly, not because he's a lame inherently, but because the world has taught him he is lame. How else are you supposed to respond when you do the same shyt as the guy next to you, and maybe are smarter, funnier, wittier, etc. but he gets all the p*ssy and you get none? You're taught you don't deserve it so why keep putting yourself thru the same pain over and over?

So really the question remains - if you're one of those women whose p*ssy just can't get wet for anything less than Shemar Moore, you don't have a lot of recourse cuz the men you want are fukking the finest society has to offer, cuz they get to choose. If you're one of those men who is a 5 who wants a 9/10, you're clearly trying to outkick your coverage. So what is someone who isn't physically attractive enough to get who they want supposed to do? And don't say "dress better" "work out" cuz for many, that may HELP but not FIX anything. Ugly is ugly. Or average is average. What are these people supposed to do? Either be with someone who doesn't the juices flowing, or go on the internet and bytch that they can't have who they really want. There's really no winning here.

Breh this has to be like the realest post I've ever seen on this website. This read like a god damn poem.

 

[LezJepzin]

Can't really fix ugly

At the end of the day, we all wanna be with someone who is attractive to us physically/sexually. I guarantee you nearly every man alive with "swag" toward the opposite sex developed that swag when he was young and realized the girls at school or in the neighborhood were drawn to him. I also guarantee you nearly every man alive labeled "lame" or who lacks "swag" is that way because at one point, he was doing the same things as his better looking friends and coming up EMPTY HANDED, causing a lack of confidence. Not because he did something wrong, just cuz the girls wanted the cute one, not the ugly one. And nobody wants to think maybe it's cuz they're just ugly cuz that would mean it's completely beyond their control.

Confidence isn't some genetic trait. It is nurtured through a series of life experiences, successes and failures. If you have it, you've succeeded. If you don't, you've failed a lot, or focus a lot on your failures.

I'm sure there are exceptions but I'm going to go ahead and say physical appearance/looks are at the root of most of these situations - either directly or indirectly.

So what are we left with? An entire generation of people who, due to the multitude of perceived "options" thru social media, dating sites, etc. constantly think they can do BETTER than what they've had. The "bitter single black woman who overlooks all the good men" stereotype is probably a woman who isn't fine enough to get the attention of the man she really wants, or if she is, is too fukking mean or crazy to keep that attention. The "lame, soft, swagless guy" stereotype is probably an ugly duckling who's been rejected more often than not and has already been taught his station in life, so his lack of confidence toward the opposite sex was gained honestly, not because he's a lame inherently, but because the world has taught him he is lame. How else are you supposed to respond when you do the same shyt as the guy next to you, and maybe are smarter, funnier, wittier, etc. but he gets all the p*ssy and you get none? You're taught you don't deserve it so why keep putting yourself thru the same pain over and over?

So really the question remains - if you're one of those women whose p*ssy just can't get wet for anything less than Shemar Moore, you don't have a lot of recourse cuz the men you want are fukking the finest society has to offer, cuz they get to choose. If you're one of those men who is a 5 who wants a 9/10, you're clearly trying to outkick your coverage. So what is someone who isn't physically attractive enough to get who they want supposed to do? And don't say "dress better" "work out" cuz for many, that may HELP but not FIX anything. Ugly is ugly. Or average is average. What are these people supposed to do? Either be with someone who doesn't the juices flowing, or go on the internet and bytch that they can't have who they really want. There's really no winning here.

Dapped & Repped!! I was one of those so-called "ugly guys" Not really from looks but because of the area I grew up at .The black women were thug chasers at the time and my "proper" personality kept me on the sidelines, never in the game. However, I was getting attention from non-black women . Yet I preferred a black chick. Can't find many if them where I'm at with that bookworm personality, which attracts me . That all changed when I got to my mid-late twenties. I didn't look or acted much different than I was when I was in high school yet all of these same black chicks that wouldn't even look my way are now when I come around. I don't want them now cause theyre looking for that "provider" to take care of their baggage and kids


Don't wanna say it's all black women because I know and was proven that the ones with class are still out there. It's like finding a needle in a haystack though. Good luck.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

I Just graduated and spent pretty much three years at college (four if you count the internship) not getting p*ssy. None whatsoever made out with two that was about it. one was a 6 the other a 4 so i started drinking more and more to not give a shyt about how them females react which was counter productive since i started to slurr my words around them be more aggressive act a fool and get thrown out of the club.

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

Women in general prefer the "bad boy." Black women or not.