Dispelling the myth: Black girls are not attracted to "thugs" or "bad boys"

[the next guy]

Basically. If Kim K was black she would be just another video ho. Black women definitely have it way harder IMO. They can't be regular, even with their own men, which is pathetic on our part as black men. I respect sistas for refusing to settle, and it's so true, the reason why there are a lot of single 30+ black women is because they don't wanna marry with a bumazz nikka, while Amy and Margarita and Nguyen don't care if their men are alcoholic bums as long as they got a ring on their finger. Sometimes I see some of the white dudes Asian women are rollin' around with and I go , I know she must be when 9PM rolls around and this 50 year old sack of skin rolls into the bedroom with the face on. Sistas would rather be on some convent sh*t then to settle for that b.s. Cotdamn y'all make a nikka proud

Imo because the media says they are the best, they are the trophy. Also white women get ostracized by their social circle if they don't marry by 35, and marry rich at that. That's where the Chris B types, NFL types, NBA types come in.

 

[MurderSheWrote]

Does any of that mean hate?

I gave you the definition of "pathology" because you obviously don't know what it means.

And yes, alot of the pathologies which can be found in everything from the music black folks produce to the things we say about/to each other, DO equate to hate.

No my defenition of scorned is anyone who lives in accordance to the the hurt and hate they feel within themselves. It's problematic that you project the negativity of a small few on all or most.

It's problematic that you can't see it is NOT a small few. It is the entire community suffering from a shyt load of pathologies.

As for your books

You can literally find a book that says anything. I could post plenty of books detailing love between black folks, but that would be pointless.

They have books that say black women are ugly and the least desirable, do think that's true?

^^^And this is why I'm officially done with this thread and this conversation with you. Your reasoning skills don't make any damn sense.

BLACK (read that word again) INTELLECTUALS (read that word again) HAVE BEEN DOCUMENTING THE HATRED BETWEEN BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN FOR DECADES.

The BLACK PRESS (magazines and even some black newspapers) HAVE BEEN DOCUMENTING THE HATRED BETWEEN BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN FOR DECADES.

It is NOT overblown. IF you have never heard how black men and black women talk about each other when the opposite sex is not in the room something is wrong.

The things black men and black women say ABOUT each other is NOT normal.

The things we do to each other is NOT normal.

The way we treat each other is NOT normal.

The way our music and culture degrade each other is NOT normal.

The ish you see on the internet and on the streets of places like Chicago is NOT normal

The black scholars I listed (along with their books) are some of the BEST in their fields. They aren't out to make profits just to sell books. Most of these folks aren't well-known except among other black intellectuals and college educated black folks. They are NOT frauds like Michael Eric Dyson.

For DECADES they have been documenting the problem. And in that time it has gone from BAD to CRISIS.

Robert Staples (a black man) has been documenting the complete destruction and decline of the black community since the early 1970s.

Kenneth Clarke (famous for the doll test) was documenting the destruction in the 1960s.

If you want to deny ALL THAT MOTHERfukkING SCHOLARLY RESEARCH AND DATA PRESENTED BY PEOPLE WHO LIVE IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY and CAME FROM THE BLACK COMMUNITY then you are dumb as phuck!

Remember people like you ignored Kenneth Clark's research in 1960s. We see where they got us.

If you don't know or understand what the hell is going on READ A DAMN BOOK and TRY TO EDUCATE YOURSELF. Anything is better than sitting around denying that a problem doesn't exist.

I'm done!

 

[Chris.B]

How are you living in D.C. and can't find professional Black women that doesn't say stupid shyt like that?

I dont go for anything playboi. If I'm down to fukk anything goes but when I'm dating I have to be selective

 

[the bossman]

this shyt is getting heated now

 

[SouthernBelle]

Imo because the media says they are the best, they are the trophy. Also white women get ostracized by their social circle if they don't marry by 35, and marry rich at that. That's where the Chris B types, NFL types, NBA types come in.

All of my white women friends from undergrad were married or engaged by 25. Anything past that and the panic sets in.

 

[AAKing23]

I gave you the definition of "pathology" because you obviously don't know what it means.

And yes, alot of the pathologies which can be found in everything from the music black folks produce to the things we say about/to each other, DO equate to hate.



It's problematic that you can't see it is NOT a small few. It is the entire community suffering from a shyt load of pathologies.



^^^And this is why I'm officially done with this thread and this conversation with you. Your reasoning skills don't make any damn sense.

BLACK (read that word again) INTELLECTUALS (read that word again) HAVE BEEN DOCUMENTING THE HATRED BETWEEN BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN FOR DECADES.

The BLACK PRESS (magazines and even some black newspapers) HAVE BEEN DOCUMENTING THE HATRED BETWEEN BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN FOR DECADES.

It is NOT overblown. IF you have never heard how black men and black women talk about each other when the opposite sex is not in the room something is wrong.

The things black men and black women say ABOUT each other is NOT normal.

The things we do to each other is NOT normal.

The way we treat each other is NOT normal.

The way our music and culture degrade each other is NOT normal.

The ish you see on the internet and on the streets of places like Chicago is NOT normal

The black scholars I listed (along with their books) are some of the BEST in their fields. They aren't out to make profits just to sell books. Most of these folks aren't well-known except among other black intellectuals and college educated black folks. They are NOT frauds like Michael Eric Dyson.

For DECADES they have been documenting the problem. And in that time it has gone from BAD to CRISIS.

Robert Staples (a black man) has been documenting the complete destruction and decline of the black community since the early 1970s.

Kenneth Clarke (famous for the doll test) was documenting the destruction in the 1960s.

If you want to deny ALL THAT MOTHERfukkING SCHOLARLY RESEARCH AND DATA PRESENTED BY PEOPLE WHO LIVE IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY and CAME FROM THE BLACK COMMUNITY then you are dumb as phuck!

Remember people like you ignored Kenneth Clark's research in 1960s. We see where they got us.

If you don't know or understand what the hell is going on READ A DAMN BOOK and TRY TO EDUCATE YOURSELF. Anything is better than sitting around denying that a problem doesn't exist.

I'm done!

You not

 

[Illuminatos]

lol you are in for a rude awakening.

There are black women..in this world, who hate your GUTS...lol

They hate the fact that you as a black man exist or were ever born.


Check this site for starters...

Black Women's Interracial Relationship Circle

you are REALLY in for an eye opener. And there are SEVERAL other sites designed by black women of similar nature...

i call it the NEW n1gga wake up call

What wake up call? You mean that there are black women who don't date or like black men? You think I don't know that?

"New nikka wake up call" Sit the fukk down you clown.

 

[the next guy]

All of my white women friends from undergrad were married or engaged by 25. Anything past that and the panic sets in.

Bingo. The way these white girls let their moms shame them into marrying anybody just because they got money...

 

[filial_piety]

What wake up call? You mean that there are black women who don't date or like black men? You think I don't know that?

"New nikka wake up call" Sit the fukk down you clown.

I see someone didn't get their NEW n1gga wake up call

May I remind you dear sir that you asked for a black female website where they aren't into black men--and now that you and a few others are presented with one...you begin to high step and dip and dodge like Deion

 

[filial_piety]

Imo because the media says they are the best, they are the trophy. Also white women get ostracized by their social circle if they don't marry by 35, and marry rich at that. That's where the Chris B types, NFL types, NBA types come in.

black families weren't too different 50 years ago...way back when....in most families you were expected to be married by your early 20s.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

From my experience.I consider myself a decent,clean cut guy (I may joke alot on here but I come in fun).As a decent,clean cut black male,the comments sistas have made towards me is unbelevable.As im gettin to know a sista alot of them give me this comment "Light skin guys arent tough" and how they are attracted to dark skin males,these are females 25&up,college educated,Sorority (dont know why i attract them) type women.This is out of their mouth.On otherhand I knew of women intimidated by me and some seen my confidence as arrogance Its amazing what women think and say but I respect their honesty lol.Yet some women have claimed when they see me that I look like a playa and how they expect me to not give them any attention etc.When its far from the truth.Here is the crazy thing I have no tats or piercings and im looked at like im from another planet

 

[MeachTheMonster]

QUOTE=MurderSheWrote;4191010]
^^^And this is why I'm officially done with this thread and this conversation with you. Your reasoning skills don't make any damn sense.[/quote]
Same as before, you run when challenged with the truth.

BLACK (read that word again) INTELLECTUALS (read that word again) HAVE BEEN DOCUMENTING THE HATRED BETWEEN BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN FOR DECADES.

Black intellectuals have said plenty of things over the years. They have also documented the love and loyalty we have for each other. You'd rather cling to the negativity and the scorn those dudes wrote about instead of seeing the full picture.

The BLACK PRESS (magazines and even some black newspapers) HAVE BEEN DOCUMENTING THE HATRED BETWEEN BLACK MEN AND BLACK WOMEN FOR DECADES.

They have also documented black love for decades, and again relationship woes does not equal hate. White publications document the same problems with their relationships.

It is NOT overblown. IF you have never heard how black men and black women talk about each other when the opposite sex is not in the room something is wrong.

Miserable scorened people like to complain and project their misery on everyone else. Just like you and Marcuz.

The things black men and black women say ABOUT each other is NOT normal.

White men claim the women only want "bad boys" as well. The women claim the men don't deserve them. It's very normal for people to express relationship woes

The things we do to each other is NOT normal.

The way we treat each other is NOT normal.

People of all races can and do hurt each other. The reality is the majority of people don't have very good character, and that goes for all races.

The way our music and culture degrade each other is NOT normal.

Yup cause there are no rock songs about raping bytches and smacking mothers: rudy:

The ish you see on the internet and on the streets of places like Chicago is NOT normal

Chicago is better off today than it has been for decades. Normal for those cities is fukked up, the less fukked up they become the less "normal" they are

The black scholars I listed (along with their books) are some of the BEST in their fields. They aren't out to make profits just to sell books. Most of these folks aren't well-known except among other black intellectuals and college educated black folks. They are NOT frauds like Michael Eric Dyson.

That's your opinion. Plenty of intellectuals also have documented the positives in our community, but you will conveniently ignore them

For DECADES they have been documenting the problem. And in that time it has gone from BAD to CRISIS.

For decades people have been lobbying the same complaints. I'd say that's pretty "normal" wouldn't you?

Robert Staples (a black man) has been documenting the complete destruction and decline of the black community since the early 1970s.

too bad there hasn't been any destruction or decline since the 70s

Kenneth Clarke (famous for the doll test) was documenting the destruction in the 1960s.

the "doll test" has been repeated multiple times with very different results. It's nit a very good test, and it proves nothing about relationships between black men and women.

If you want to deny ALL THAT MOTHERfukkING SCHOLARLY RESEARCH AND DATA PRESENTED BY PEOPLE WHO LIVE IN THE BLACK COMMUNITY and CAME FROM THE BLACK COMMUNITY then you are dumb as phuck!

none if it is very reliable research, just "sky is falling" rhetoric that has never come to pass. This "research" isn't sited very often today because it's not very strong.

Remember people like you ignored Kenneth Clark's research in 1960s. We see where they got us.

Where did it get us? Less poverty, less crime, more school. Damn we should have heeded his warnings

If you don't know or understand what the hell is going on READ A DAMN BOOK and TRY TO EDUCATE YOURSELF. Anything is better than sitting around denying that a problem doesn't exist.

I do more than read. I work with the people in my community everyday. They love each other and work together toward a better future. Only miserable people on the Internet who like to site old, flawed studies think otherwise.

I'm done![/QUOTE]

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Some black women equate being with a thug to being protected and being safe. I don't know why but several have told me this over the years. They look at a guy who may stick to himself and is working toward something as a square and someone who is soft. U can walk up to a chick with a nice suit on and actually try to talk to her like a person, and she may not give you the time of the day. But the next man may have on a baggy pair of jeans a big ass t-shirt and some J's on and she might feel he is the greatest thing since sliced bread. She doesn't take into account that he has multiple baby momma's no job and a record long as a mile. While the guy in the suit is the one with a 401k plan no kids his own house and never even had a speeding ticket. But they don't want that guy until they have been played numerous times by multiple thugs. Then they wonder why the so called square nikka looks his nose down at them.

Crazy part about it, if he's a real thug, you're standing in the crossifire of rival goons and bullets


But somehow, you're with this man for protection?


Hollowed be thy name, ladies.


They need to gain some wisdom.They have a very basic/ primitive understanding of what "protection and safety" really means.They're definitions are infantile and shallow as fukk.It's more than a few tats and a mean mug.


But the OP is right.Women like men who are ambitious.Whether you make your money on the dark side or through legal means, it doesn't really matter to most females nowadays.As long as you got the ambition, there's always going to be a female willing to buy what you're selling.shyt, females have more of a "goon" mentality than dudes these days.They idolize the same nikkaz on the block that the dudes look up to.Only worst because they wanna have his baby.The cycle continues


It's them females trying to escape the poverty line....I believe the new term is "Basic bytches"

The love of their lives is always locked up, but sending them prison art to show off to their rat pack girlfriends on Facebook

They all rejoice

 

[Fatboi1]

^^^And this is why I'm officially done with this thread and this conversation with you. Your reasoning skills don't make any damn sense.

Same as before, you run when challenged with the truth.


Black intellectuals have said plenty of things over the years. They have also documented the love and loyalty we have for each other. You'd rather cling to the negativity and the scorn those dudes wrote about instead of seeing the full picture.


They have also documented black love for decades, and again relationship woes does not equal hate. White publications document the same problems with their relationships.


Miserable scorened people like to complain and project their misery on everyone else. Just like you and Marcuz.


White men claim the women only want "bad boys" as well. The women claim the men don't deserve them. It's very normal for people to express relationship woes


People of all races can and do hurt each other. The reality is the majority of people don't have very good character, and that goes for all races.


Yup cause there are no rock songs about raping bytches and smacking mothers: rudy:

Chicago is better off today than it has been for decades. Normal for those cities is fukked up, the less fukked up they become the less "normal" they are


That's your opinion. Plenty of intellectuals also have documented the positives in our community, but you will conveniently ignore them


For decades people have been lobbying the same complaints. I'd say that's pretty "normal" wouldn't you?


too bad there hasn't been any destruction or decline since the 70s


the "doll test" has been repeated multiple times with very different results. It's nit a very good test, and it proves nothing about relationships between black men and women.


none if it is very reliable research, just "sky is falling" rhetoric that has never come to pass. This "research" isn't sited very often today because it's not very strong.


Where did it get us? Less poverty, less crime, more school. Damn we should have heeded his warnings


I do more than read. I work with the people in my community everyday. They love each other and work together toward a better future. Only miserable people on the Internet who like to site old, flawed studies think otherwise.

I'm done!

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Brothas got their Post Font in "Art Barr 16". Chill with these Titangraphs