Disrespecting marital vows...

sanityovar8ted

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What benefits?
Student deferments, tax n child n eic credits. .. personal assistant.. I take care of all the paperwork I get our papers together for taxes....imma paper pusher. ..one year we got audited....n I collected n returned the necessary paperwork to fetch us a $8k refund. It was Xmas n august all thanks to me...
its cheaper not to marry the bytch
in the first place
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Slaimon Khan Shah

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Adultery, fornication, fagggotry, lesbianism, it all leads to destruction in this life, and can land people in the Hellfire, maybe forever.
Morals are the way to success in this life and the afterlife.
Sinfulness leads to destruction in this life and the afterlife.
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MikeBarnes

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It depends on your conscience and whether you can separate in your mind the legal marriage from the one you grew up imagining it to be. I don't know if you're asking because of your situation or not, but if you are you need to keep in mind that you didn't set this in motion. It wasn't your actions that led to a situation where you're contemplating have a marriage for the sake of benefits. So make your decision with that in mind. If you're ok with it, don't create guilt where you shouldn't have it. On the other end, if you feel guilty and it's hurting you, decide if it's a price you can deal with. Long story short though - nobody should be judging you. Be easy on yourself. Still wishing the best for you, Thowd.
 

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I used to want to get married. After my experiences dating I'm going the Ronaldo route and joining the single dad club. The games are fun for about ten days. After that I dunno why everything has to be an up hill battle.
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What are ur feelings towards people who blatantly disrespect they marital vows with no regard for others........n then wanna stay legally married for the benefits........without being together.......
don't give two fukks... it's their marriage and their vows.. do what you want.. it's your life


maybe cause i was in the military, i've seen it all... from cheating wives (man on deployment), cheating husbands (what happens on TDY, stays on TDY) to people getting married for the extra money/benefits (lets get married so we can move out the dorms)
 

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It depends on your conscience and whether you can separate in your mind the legal marriage from the one you grew up imagining it to be. I don't know if you're asking because of your situation or not, but if you are you need to keep in mind that you didn't set this in motion. It wasn't your actions that led to a situation where you're contemplating have a marriage for the sake of benefits. So make your decision with that in mind. If you're ok with it, don't create guilt where you shouldn't have it. On the other end, if you feel guilty and it's hurting you, decide if it's a price you can deal with. Long story short though - nobody should be judging you. Be easy on yourself. Still wishing the best for you, Thowd.
Thank u jack....need to see more of u on here....I know u always have good sound advice n uknow I value yo opinion
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