Divorcing.... What Should I Do Next?

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So i'm divorcing, it's somewhat of an amicable divorce, and she not asking for alot of money financially as we finished our mortgage. only $400 a month.
Moving out in October, waiting for my place to get built, doors are scheduled to open Oct 1st.
Got 3 kids, they staying with her and me on most weekends.
Has to be weekends because where we stay now the kids's school bus is accross the street and my new place is far from their school.

What should I do once I move out?
Should I fukk around? Look for a relationship?
Take a break from both fukking around and getting into a relationship and just do me alone for a year.

See my thing is I never use condoms, so i'm worried about about fukking around.
Secondly fukking around can get expensive, or it can not as well, but depends.

I'm not sure which path I should focus on.
As I move out in October it will also be the first time in my life living alone.

I gotta learn alot of shyt and learn how to cook.
 
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Take a few months to just breathe.

You're ending more than just a relationship, you're ending a lifestyle. You may find that you have more freedom than you know what to do with.

So just chill for a minute. Get your bearings. Feel out your new life. Decide what it is you want when you've had a chance to re-center your life around yourself.
 
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Get that hiv pill on standby since u a gambler...get the trail version of the male birth control and have fun... sounds like you ended up better than most ..have fun and if a unicorn come along snatch her up...Good luck
 

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Why only the weekends? I understand it's your kids, but what if you want to chill on the weekend?
 

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Take a few months to just breathe.

You're ending more than just a relationship, you're ending a lifestyle. You may find that you have more freedom than you know what to do with.

So just chill for a minute. Get your bearings. Feel out your new life. Decide what it is you want when you've had a chance to re-center your life around yourself.

I doubt it I will have more freedom than I know what to do with.
I got all my free time planned out.
I chose a place that has it's own gym downstairs, and a real gym 20 minutes away.
The roof has a bar, a pool and a terrace, downstairs is the gym and a gameroom with foozball, darts and a pooltable.
These are all common areas of course.
Also as soon I move there I will be joining a Muai Thai class that is very reputable.
I wanna try and be awesome at muay thai

I doubt I will have a lot of free time, in fact i'm worried if I will have enough time.
And there's so many beach parties going on these days
 
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