Divorcing.... What Should I Do Next?

[DA_LURKA]

Drop to your knees ( )... Bump your head 5 times on the floor... Thank Allah...

 

[tuckgod]

So i'm divorcing, it's somewhat of an amicable divorce, and she not asking for alot of money financially as we finished our mortgage. only $400 a month.
Moving out in October, waiting for my place to get built, doors are scheduled to open Oct 1st.
Got 3 kids, they staying with her and me on most weekends.
Has to be weekends because where we stay now the kids's school bus is accross the street and my new place is far from their school.

What should I do once I move out?
Should I fukk around? Look for a relationship?
Take a break from both fukking around and getting into a relationship and just do me alone for a year.

See my thing is I never use condoms, so i'm worried about about fukking around.
Secondly fukking around can get expensive, or it can not as well, but depends.

I'm not sure which path I should focus on.
As I move out in October it will also be the first time in my life living alone.

I gotta learn alot of shyt and learn how to cook.

Download Tinder, buy an air fryer and an Instant Pot and you straight.

YouTube got a trillion easy recipes for them and anything you can think of.

Wish it was a way y’all could work it out though.

We need Black families together.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

I had me a girlfriend that came thru to my new apartment as soon as I moved out. But that relationship was as empty as it gets.

Two long term gfs and about a dozen randos later and I'm just sitting here alone and confused.

So very tired of running game and scrambling for puzzy.

But of course the scramble must continue. But other than dry dikc, this months long break has been nice.

In short... I can't call it Breh. For me life just was never the same and I still feel out of sorts over 10 years later

 

[Giselle]

So i'm divorcing, it's somewhat of an amicable divorce, and she not asking for alot of money financially as we finished our mortgage. only $400 a month.
Moving out in October, waiting for my place to get built, doors are scheduled to open Oct 1st.
Got 3 kids, they staying with her and me on most weekends.
Has to be weekends because where we stay now the kids's school bus is accross the street and my new place is far from their school.

What should I do once I move out?
Should I fukk around? Look for a relationship?
Take a break from both fukking around and getting into a relationship and just do me alone for a year.

See my thing is I never use condoms, so i'm worried about about fukking around.
Secondly fukking around can get expensive, or it can not as well, but depends.

I'm not sure which path I should focus on.
As I move out in October it will also be the first time in my life living alone.

I gotta learn alot of shyt and learn how to cook.

How long have you been married& at what age did you get married? If you didn’t cheat, why are you divorcing?

I personally think you should take a break from dating sex and relationships. Also, relearn how to use condoms.

 

[beaniemac]

So i'm divorcing, it's somewhat of an amicable divorce, and she not asking for alot of money financially as we finished our mortgage. only $400 a month.
Moving out in October, waiting for my place to get built, doors are scheduled to open Oct 1st.
Got 3 kids, they staying with her and me on most weekends.
Has to be weekends because where we stay now the kids's school bus is accross the street and my new place is far from their school.

What should I do once I move out?
Should I fukk around? Look for a relationship?
Take a break from both fukking around and getting into a relationship and just do me alone for a year.

See my thing is I never use condoms, so i'm worried about about fukking around.
Secondly fukking around can get expensive, or it can not as well, but depends.

I'm not sure which path I should focus on.
As I move out in October it will also be the first time in my life living alone.

I gotta learn alot of shyt and learn how to cook.

I been thru this. do NOT jump into another relationship. fukk that. ya'll still live together. no quality woman is gonna take u serious as long as ur in that situation anyways

u got 3 kids, so be prepared to pay up. how old are they? I have 2 kids, and I had to pay up. but one of them is an adult now, so I only gotta pay for one officially.

for the house ya'll got, are ya'll gonna sell it? if not, and u have to move, then she needs to cut u a check for half the equity in that crib since it's a marital asset

I'm glad ur getting ur own crib. I hope u have enough room to accomodate the 3 kids. Also, I can't imagine living with an ex for more 4 months, but it's whatever

 

[beaniemac]

No, the reason why I got married early is VERY stupid!!!!
I was making bank in IT, too much at a young age and I was just partying all that money away.
So I decided to get married to stop living life as a spendthrift.
When I found the girl, we didn't know each other that well, and I met her online, and then got married.
Our parents were opposed to the marriage but we did it anyway, I thought I was being wise at the time.

I agree, your reasoning for getting married was not sound

 

[beaniemac]

It was part of the deal so I only pay $400 a month

for 3 kids?????

 

[I.Go]

for 3 kids?????

Breh tryin to hit the race on system he gone get that real nikkah wake up
call in family court. He amazoning all the fly shyt bout to buy until them child support garnishments hit.

Cheaper to keep her breh you in too deep with 3 kids

 

[EffYou]

cant imagine not being with my wife.

shes my world

ur ass sound like you gon commit that once she wakes up and realizes this ain’t what she want

 

[Cat piss martini]

Learn from yo damn mistake.
get money and p*ssy.
marriage is like church and AA.....for quitters.

*scene from purple rain*

pops: you got a girlfriend?
prince: yeah.....I got a girlfriend.
pops: you gonna get married?
prince: I dont know.
pops: never get married.

 

[RiffRaff]

I had me a girlfriend that came thru to my new apartment as soon as I moved out. But that relationship was as empty as it gets.

Two long term gfs and about half a dozen randos later and I'm just sitting here alone and confused.

So very tired of running game and scrambling for puzzy.

But of course the scramble must continue. But other than dry dikc, this months long break has been nice.

In short... I can't call it Breh. For me life just was never the same and I still feel out of sorts over 10 years later

 

[tuckgod]

I had me a girlfriend that came thru to my new apartment as soon as I moved out. But that relationship was as empty as it gets.

Two long term gfs and about a dozen randos later and I'm just sitting here alone and confused.

So very tired of running game and scrambling for puzzy.

But of course the scramble must continue. But other than dry dikc, this months long break has been nice.

In short... I can't call it Breh. For me life just was never the same and I still feel out of sorts over 10 years later

Damn

 

[WaveMolecules]

ur ass sound like you gon commit that once she wakes up and realizes this ain’t what she want

I’ve always said if she leaves for whatever reason then it wasn’t meant to be.

 

[Ruckfonnie]

get some p*ssy