Being "foreign" is relative. African American men are foreign and exotic to me
Most Trini Women in my experience either love or hate us. There is no in-between. The ones who love us are probably 10% though LOL.
Women from Trinidad in my experience (and my Pops) at least the ones in the NYC area are some of the most dramatic hyper emotional defcon 5 WWIII Women you will ever encounter. And the older ones are the worst. I've had so many of them accuse me of disrespecting my Mother not being a good son etc. Trying to emotional guilt trip every nikka in a 5 mile radius. I'm like bytch your son got a girl pregnant and has been in prison before and you make excuses for him. My mother's friend from Trinidad her brother is a fukk up and because he fukked up and her mother gives him a pass it makes her hate every Black man essentially and because her husband cheated 15 years ago every Black Man is a toddler that needs to be disciplined and kept "in check". The last falling out I had with my mother she was in the middle of it. I haven't spoken to that Woman since she has done nothing but blow up shyt and I feel sorry as fukk for her kids (she has 2 sons and a daughter). Her husband is a military vet and even he is nicer than her. I have no idea why he married (or stayed married) her the sex must be amazing even though I don't want to think about it
I get into a little back and forth with my mother and don't call her for a month and it's the end of the world (mind you this is when I was 19). It's like they live and breathe drama to the max. I wasn't surprised the Rihanna and Chris Brown story some Woman in her family was talking in her ear. What is it about Trini Women that makes them have to stir up dramatics? Too much Yarrow root? I'm not even trolling dead 1000% serious.
It's not just Trini but Carribean Women in general, a lot of them give themselves high blood pressure. HBP is virtually uncommon in females before menopause but I see Hawthorn tea in nearly every Carribean woman's house I've been to. I've always been more on the mellow side so anytime I know a Woman is a carribean I usually try and keep my distance
I have enough stress in my life. Every Carribean dude I know has had a heart attack by the age of 50 on account of his Wife. My pops got with a Bajan woman with kids and thought we would be one big happy family. Look she was nice as hell to me because she viewed me as her son but when I was not over there she constantly was belligerent arguing with my father at least once a week
. She even tried to help me get a job. One of the nicest Woman I ever met but when it came to Men her own age or older she just have this scorned mentality
Not trying to rant just understand why a lot of Carribean Women have this "ting" with Black Men in general....
? nikka that was 2015, we dating extraterrestrials playboi
