Do Dark Skinned ****** have it harder with females?

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

You're right about how some black girls claim to be of other races, but maybe it's some deeper psychological shyt going on with some of them.....especially in regards to light skinned men.


Maybe some of them are so delusional, they can't stand being with a light skinned man because it reminds them of how "black" they really are?Some times, you have cross gender jealousy.I see it with my niece and nephew all the time.My niece is dark skinned and my nephew is of mixed race.Half black and half mexican.

My nephew is a lil pretty boy.Hair all the way down to his back.My niece on the other hand, has a real difficult time growing any hair at all.She even told my sister that she was jealous of my nephew because he was "prettier" than her.I guess when they're out & about, people come up to my nephew and say "oh he's so cute", but totally forget about my niece.shyt like that can fukk with a young childs psyche.


My niece even got in trouble for trying to cut my nephews hair off.She's only 7, but she already resents his "pretty light skinned ass" features.He somehow makes her feel inadequate and it makes her a lil hostile towards him.



It's a lot of grown ass black women walking around with that same mentality.It's like they have a disgust for light skinned dudes because in some twisted, invalid way, he's "prettier" than she is.You know how they say "nobody wants to be the bad person in a relationship"? I guess when it comes to SOME black folks "nobody wants to be the dark(black) person in the relationship".......shyt is sick, but it's out there.

It's more than what's on the surface 4 sho

 

[Shadow King]

Los Angeles....San Diego.....Spent time in New Orleans, Phoenix AZ, and Chicago

Oh I'm from Jersey...maybe darker brothers having a hard time is a Southern thing

 

[bloodsimple.]

I wouldn't limit it to just one region or even one race, for that matter.

The effects of colonialism are far reaching and effect many people.

They deal with the same thing in Asia too (with the eye lid surgeries and the skin bleaching products).

Even in India, all the celebrities and movie stars are lighter skinned than their darker counterparts. Hispanic countries too, sh*t is crazy in Brazil.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Oh I'm from Jersey...maybe darker brothers having a hard time is a Southern thing

Nah. My parents live in Alabama and I have relatives in Georgia, Florida and Louisiana. I had NO problems meeting women when I was down there.
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[Shadow King]

Nah. My parents live in Alabama and I have relatives in Georgia, Florida and Louisiana. I had NO problems meeting women when I was down there.
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guess geography ain't a factor

 

[Wild self]

I find darker skinned cats usually have the advantage with yellabones. lighter skinned cats have an advantage with the darker skinned females.

A lot of it really fluctuates with the media. In the 90s, dark skinned cats were promoted as 'hard', 'thugged out', or whatever and lightskinned cats were perceived to be soft and more feminine. That's when you had all that 'i love chocolate' talk from women. in the 80s, light skinned cats were put on due to el debarge, prince and them kind of negroes.

Thanks to Obama n Chris Brown, light skinned nikkas get love again from the ladies . I see black women liking more dark skinned dudes cause they more "real" and a "true black man." Some think that light skinned black men are con artists and are the lite version of white men

Personally, dark skinned women are more down to earth and more respectable.

 

[Wild self]

But those guys are still obscure compared to Drake, Chris Brown, Trey Songz etc. There's only Honsou if we're talking mainstream. It's really weird, a few years ago 90% of black dudes getting dap in mainstream media were dark or brown (Nick Cannon, Mekhi Phifer, Usher, 50, Beckford, Honsou etc.) but since this "swag" shyt kicked off in 2010, being rail thin, tatted up and light is what's in. No homo.

this is true. Look at this dude -->

 

[MostReal]

My sister is lightskinned & only dated one light skin dude here entire life. Married a dark brother.

I'm of the brownish/dark complexion & I've pulled all types. Most of the girls I've dated have been light, or mixed. 3 whites girls but my preference is caramel complexion...they are like

the Dark skinned girls are the most sexy to me though, dated two...one became my wife.... skin is so beautiful & smooth...

 

[AAKing23]

Thanks to Obama n Chris Brown, light skinned nikkas get love again from the ladies . I see black women liking more dark skinned dudes cause they more "real" and a "true black man." Some think that light skinned black men are con artists and are the lite version of white men

Personally, dark skinned women are more down to earth and more respectable.

Cosign especially the last sentence



The lightskin chicks in my experiences have always seemed to be more arrogant and stuck up


The darkskin chicks were usually pretty down to earth and chill

 

[Wild self]

Cosign especially the last sentence



The lightskin chicks in my experiences have always seemed to be more arrogant and stuck up


The darkskin chicks were usually pretty down to earth and chill

Them light skinned chicks be gassed up thinking that I'm gonna simp on them and trick on them

 

[Metta World Movement]

Everybody knows that it's only attractive to be dark-skinned if you're a man

Maybe some of them are so delusional, they can't stand being with a light skinned man because it reminds them of how "black" they really are?

....holy shyt.

 

[MostReal]

Them light skinned chicks be gassed up thinking that I'm gonna simp on them and trick on them

The Cacs set this up decades ago.

watch how they got niqqas acting when the 'lightskin' broad shows up on the scene (borrowed from HL)


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What's sad is that we still fall for this, man our minds are GONE!!!

We all black