Do easy girls make it hard for good girls?

[Bean]

don't worry bout what your friends think let that white bul get some of that p*ssy girl.

 

[Arishok]

I think it's only a small percentage of men who marry whores. It's usually those young, hood nikkas like Tyga or Wiz Khalifa. The regular, everyday joe doesn't want a woman who has been around the block a couple times. They want a respectable woman whom they can walk down the street with and not have dudes laughing at them cracking jokes. The dudes that I used as examples are mocked as being 'simps' or 'lames'.

That wouldn't be me, seeing as I haven't hooked up with anyone from this school (I almost did once but that didn't happen). Now I question if he really believes me when I say he'd be the first one I'm being casual with.

 

[bangedher_wholesquad]

What if he catches feelings too?

If u want to do it go for it.

I seen people regret not doing things.

I'd rather make mistakes



Depends on your personality type.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

Give him the p***y and think about the consequences later.... That's what the majority of females do......

 

[sglove]

yep....I mean sure you have this nice girl your tryna get to know...and she might wanna keep the good till the relationship has matured..but miss easy over here is throwin it his way with no commitments. And know a days hoes can really be lookin just like the good girls...so why not? unless the man has will power...but yall just met....and how many guys you know have much will power

 

[ChiefQueen]

a white mans bedwench doesn't have to necessarily hate black men. although i've noticed a trend with y'all mini afro having black women. im willing to bet you're the type who say dumb shyt like "white men appreciate my natural hair more than black men"

You're too much...

 

[Arishok]

How does everyone know me and this guy just met

 

[Elle Driver]

At the end of the day, more power to you, you gotta have your own set of standards. If you wanna have sex and get straight into it, why the fukk not? You only have to face yourself at the end of the day who the fukk cares about a whore label? And these girls saying you're making it harder for them are obviously insecure as it is. It's a lot of men out there that wife up girls who've had so damn partners, I mean who really cares at the end of the day? As a woman, being in tune with your sexuality and your body is grossly misunderstood and never talked about, women are afraid of their own anatomy. There's a lot more you can do than sex, that's just me personally though. I've always been of the opinion that you need to learn about your own body before you let someone else venture into it, and for us women it's hella hard to separate sex from emotions. As much as we try to front, we can't have sex without feeling attached later (unless you're some kind of sociopath).

 

[Jone2three45]

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[Arishok]

He is white? I'm talking to this natural sister now and she only dated and had relationships with white men, whhhhhhy there are brothers out here who are into natural black women too!







You might as well let the cac split the black oak

I don't do that, I date all kinds of men, as long as they're attractive. What's with the coli and interracial dating? Y'all ain't into it?

 

[mcdivit85]

I mean I can't get mad at him because we had a mutual understanding

Women kill me when they use this line to justify their attempt at having casual sex. As if since they decided that they had a mutual understanding that that's going to stop their emotions from going left when they understood they should stay right.

The reality is, if and when a woman decides to have sex with a guy, there's always a chance of feelings getting involved. And those chances exponentially increase as the sexual relationship grows in time. So, if you have a one night stand, then the chance is small. But if you have a f#ck buddy relationship for 6 months, then its damn near certain that feelings will develop on the woman's part.

Since the OP seems to fancy this guy enough to discuss this with her friends and the board, I'm pretty sure this would not be a one night stand. Most likely, she's very attracted to the guy hence the sex would continue. Because the guy is most likely not going to stop an interaction that brings him easy, non-committal sex.

This leads to the high possibility of an all too common scenario:

- Guy and girl have ongoing sexual relationship after woman swears up and down she won't overstep the boundaries
- Women develops feelings for guy and wants to change the scope of the relationship
- She breaks the boundaries
- Guy continues sleeping with her while avoiding the "relationship" talk as much as possible OR just flat out drops the chick
- Chick gets mad at him....even though she said 6 months earlier "I can't get mad at him because we had a mutual understanding"

I wonder how this tale will unravel?

Peace

 

[Jone2three45]

I don't do that, I date all kinds of men, as long as they're attractive. What's with the coli and interracial dating? Y'all ain't into it?

You will find out sooner or later.

 

[Will2x]

You're going to regret this when you're getting ghetto gagged.

 

[Arishok]

Women kill me when they use this line to justify their attempt at having casual sex. As if since they decided that they had a mutual understanding that that's going to stop their emotions from going left when they understood they should stay right.

The reality is, if and when a woman decides to have sex with a guy, there's always a chance of feelings getting involved. And those chances exponentially increase as the sexual relationship grows in time. So, if you have a one night stand, then the chance is small. But if you have a f#ck buddy relationship for 6 months, then its damn near certain that feelings will develop on the woman's part.

Since the OP seems to fancy this guy enough to discuss this with her friends and the board, I'm pretty sure this would not be a one night stand. Most likely, she's very attracted to the guy hence the sex would continue. Because the guy is most likely not going to stop an interaction that brings him easy, non-committal sex.

This leads to the high possibility of an all too common scenario:

- Guy and girl have ongoing sexual relationship after woman swears up and down she won't overstep the boundaries
- Women develops feelings for guy and wants to change the scope of the relationship
- She breaks the boundaries
- Guy continues sleeping with her while avoiding the "relationship" talk as much as possible OR just flat out drops the chick
- Chick gets mad at him....even though she said 6 months earlier "I can't get mad at him because we had a mutual understanding"

I wonder how this tale will unravel?

Peace

I honestly don't think I'd get mad at him especially since we've already talked about the possibilities of feelings coming up but if I get my feelings hurt, I get them hurt and can only blame myself.

 

[Arishok]

You're going to regret this when you're getting ghetto gagged.