Do Girls Ever Get Over Their Ex?

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For both genders its the same

Who dumped who
If there was cheating involved
If they are the ones that messed up.

Many people don't get over their exes, they still maintain a emotional connection whether through hate or love or friendship
 

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yes if i get a win at something. that means i upgraded myself, and i can do better than him (a person who left me or made me leave him). i dated one guy at a low point & words cannot describe all that he was not. i honestly deny any relationship with him if anyone asks. :whew:
 

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Remember how I said brehs how women sugarcoat their past :sas1:

I've dated a woman who plotted to destroy my life and only got with her because she was beautiful with a fat ass and overlooked everything else I only blame myself but I don't have to sugarcoat my past

yes if i get a win at something. that means i upgraded myself, and i can do better than him (a person who left me or made me leave him). i dated one guy at a low point & words cannot describe all that he was not. i honestly deny any relationship with him if anyone asks. :whew:
 

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yes if i get a win at something. that means i upgraded myself, and i can do better than him (a person who left me or made me leave him). i dated one guy at a low point & words cannot describe all that he was not. i honestly deny any relationship with him if anyone asks. :whew:
we mentioned that girls can get over rebounds you proving my point
 

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Remember how I said brehs how women sugarcoat their past :sas1:

I've dated a woman who plotted to destroy my life and only got with her because she was beautiful with a fat ass and overlooked everything else I only blame myself but I don't have to sugarcoat my past
yea im sure the bytch never gon mention alot of things to the new guy
 

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Yep its normal
A) bash exes and act like you did no wrong
B) leave out certain exes you may have screwed over, or who were total vagabonds
C) get the nukka to say damn you've been through alot
D) say no guy has ever insert like you have
E) you got him

yea im sure the bytch never gon mention alot of things to the new guy
 

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Yep its normal
A) bash exes and act like you did no wrong
B) leave out certain exes you may have screwed over, or who were total vagabonds
C) get the nukka to say damn you've been through alot
D) say no guy has ever insert like you have
E) you got him
man :( shyt is real out here in the field bruh
bytches fukkin my trust up
 

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Remember how I said brehs how women sugarcoat their past :sas1:

I've dated a woman who plotted to destroy my life and only got with her because she was beautiful with a fat ass and overlooked everything else I only blame myself but I don't have to sugarcoat my past

if i tell someone i dated him, then i'm going to have to explain myself. it is easier just to deny the situation.
 

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From my observations, where women struggle to get over exes is when the relationship did not end on their terms. Whether she got did wrong, she did wrong, or the dude decided this just wasn't working anymore, in general the process is much tougher as -- and I have this on good authority from my female friends -- they don't break up with or dump a cat until they have completely detached from him emotionally. During that period of detachment, the guy still has a chance to rekindle whatever it was that cuffed her in the first place or whatever.

If things end on the woman's terms? There will be a mourning period but she'll be fine.

A situation like what OP is laying out? Nah. Like the saying goes, "Out of sight, out of mind." Hard to get over someone you have to cross paths with regularly.
 

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Closure is a thing every woman desires.

If you are her first love that overlaps any scenario though :shaq:


From my observations, where women struggle to get over exes is when the relationship did not end on their terms. Whether she got did wrong, she did wrong, or the dude decided this just wasn't working anymore, in general the process is much tougher as -- and I have this on good authority from my female friends -- they don't break up with or dump a cat until they have completely detached from him emotionally. During that period of detachment, the guy still has a chance to rekindle whatever it was that cuffed her in the first place or whatever.

If things end on the woman's terms? There will be a mourning period but she'll be fine.

A situation like what OP is laying out? Nah. Like the saying goes, "Out of sight, out of mind." Hard to get over someone you have to cross paths with regularly.
 
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