Do guys you know irl have a hard time getting laid or is that just another coli narrative?

[Wild self]

You remember that thread about the number of sexual partners? The median coli member slept with 0 women in 2015. Funny enough i think the coli is pretty much in line with reality. Most guys in every facet of life are truly clueless when it comes to women.

How can we correct that so that some balance can return to the dating scene? Me, I never make these threads, but I a lot and piss off mad people, which is comedy in itself.

I personally don't have trouble talking to women or being with them, just that in the dating game, you gotta air out the bullshyt or else it will continue to exist. Dudes who see divorce threads and the like, are concerned about their priorities. Anybody Co signing simps or airhead women that cause drama, deserve each other's misery.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Standards

Its that simple, any guy I know that has low standards has no problem getting laid on the regular. They might deal with 5's the majority of the time but just like the stock market the numbers are up and down. Then there are those that have confidence issue but deflect as to why they can't get a chick. Those are the worst and the coli and internet in general is a rest haven for them.


Scared money dont make money.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

Only here.

 

[thewiz]

I've seen it in real life but I've never seen nikkas come up with irrational excuses and defeatist attitudes like I've seen on here, shyt is sad

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Women are easy to get, quality women not so much. This is probably the worst generation of women in history and men just weren't prepared for that. It leaves a lot of them broken and confused making them susceptible for even more abuse.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Facebook is the Coli for women though. A lot of woe is me, bitter, defeatist attitudes.

 

[The Mad Titan]

Women are easy to get, quality women not so much. This is probably the worst generation of women in history and men just weren't prepared for that. It leaves a lot of them broken and confused making them susceptible for even more abuse.

This

And the wildest thing is how many women think they are quality women because they are virgins, have low body counts college degree's and PHD's or make good money but are just ass when it comes to relationships. Like straight up terrible.

No one's perfect but yo some of these women heads are so far up there butt everything smells like boo boo.

 

[Bigtymer301]

Reading things on the coli would make you think you're trapped in another dimension ..

Majority of guys i know irl have zero problems with the opposite sex, they don't complain about shyt that nikkas on the internet do. Brehs on the coli claim if you're not 6'6 making a six figure salary, that it is impossible to get laid. A lot also believe that escorts is the only way to get laid...

Do yall know guys who have these problems irl?
Because i dont'

....Naw
Even the nikkas I know that ain't killing it with the ladies, still get laid pretty routinely. The Coli is for the most part about laughs......I wouldn't take too much from the coli seriously

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

I know some accomplished guys who stil struggle with women. But they are both nerdy and devoutly religious.

one of my best friends is basically this

by far the most successful person in my social circle (Wall street, 200k+ salary)

he's gotten girls in the past but he has very high standards (rightfully so) and it's hard for him to find a quality girl thats religious, successful, and not a former hoe

 

[BaldingSoHard]

It's hard to get laid if you don't leave the house.

I have a hard time believing these dudes are putting in effort to meet women.

With that said, I'm probably the most introverted dude on the coli and I still get ass so I don't know what to tell those dudes.

 

[BlackDiBiase]

you are talking to a lot of guys who have spent a decade plus on messageboards as part of the daily routine its their life. they know posters names in and out in fact those are the threads that do numbers when another poster is talking about another poster.

a lot of sick guys who hate women because they never had them, the coli is make believe there are 2 threads on first page exposing instagram hoes for no other reason than getting together to dap/rep over their self-defeat while another thread packed with them saying they would never date a feminist

just looking at the post counts and the fact coli has been around for like only 3 years to let you know what these guys base their lifes around. I honestly only one guy who has never gotten girls and he was a janitor for a supermarket while i was working there as a teen. dude didnt even know how to read the way it got revealed to me was deep but yeah these are the coli types.

 

[International Playa]

As a man,if you dont put any effort when it comes to women, you not gonna eat. Most dudes arent even approaching women. Most dudes arent even hitting the gym, losing weight, dressing presentably for chicks to least check you out.

One of my boys, dude as been steadily gaining weight over the past few years, but he expects dimes. When we go club dude dont make an effort to dress up nice, take a bath and smell good. One time we went out dude had bad breathe. Dude hardly approaches and he confused how come he aint eating.

Im not the nicest looking cat or most social, but I make sure I clean up nice, look good, look presentable so Im ready to approach. I bat an average of 2-3 females a year, I would love more but at least I got a lady always. Im always looking to improve so I can get more females.

I see brothas complaining about not getting any ass, but they aint even trying. Just going to the gym will boost your confidence because it will make you feel confortable in your own skin

 

[Lo-Co]

Honestly I don't feel like I'm a loser. As much as I failed before or just was passive. I genuinely believe I can do it. I've been conscious about my weight for years. That was the main thing fukking me up and preventing me from not trying. I mean in high school I had dated around, I was getting sex, all on my own merit. I just got stagnant with things. Got lazy, stopped going out, feared rejection after not dating for so long. I'm on the spectrum. And ive talked about it before on here. But I dont like to use that as an excuse to not even say hello or even ask a question.

 

[Ski Mask]

I know myself IRL, so yeah. Social anxiety is the devil

 

[dc007]

The struggle is real, a lot of guys out here are really passive

Was a guy on my old project, about 6'3, not scrawny, MBA, who got friend zoned by girls constantly.

But I think even he got laid a few times a year