Do males raised by single mothers grow up with a sense of authority and need to maintain order over their community and women?

[MajesticLion]

 

[Mrhateeverything]

Statistics show you better with parents... but stats dont matter to Black folks.

And All critique of our women is bashing and hate right?

True. I think you are right in many ways but i think if they have strong male figures in their life it can correct that .

My nephews dad died when they were young.
They had me and my bros always to help out.
My other nephews dad was a deadbeat but same situation. We were always their to guide them as they were youngers and teens.




They definitely dont think everything their moms do is right and arent afraid to speak out respectfully.


Also do you think the opposite situation has a negative effect .
A single man raising a daughter ?

 

[Treblemaka]

Getting raised by primarily a single parent who doesnt share your gender can create a bunch of issues in especially for black boys in America.

We are the only US ethnicity in which the majority of our births are unplanned and outside of marriage. Its obvious in how we raise children, in how our men see parenting, its obvious in the gender war we can't afford.

Alot of us exist because of an irresponsible "good time" between two people who weren't ever serious about having a child.

That is a pathetic standard that no child deserves.

 

[Max Power]

He don't care.. smh. All he knows is those stats rubs his single mother wrong so it has to be denied and attacked.

Yep you're right, look at his weak ass response

Poor households in crime-ridden areas.

 

[feelosofer]

We can't just pin every single problem in the Black community on a Black women. As a collective we could be doing more.

I made a hypothetical scenario where if Black men had to automatically marry any women they had sex with and got pregnant and you couldn't divorce them and this had to happen for 3 generations and some dudes were spitting out their virtual drinks.

We literally have 2 going on 3 generations of children who almost 3/4 were born from one night stands or short term relationships

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

The whole "raised by single mothers = bad" thing is just misogyny. There are good single moms and bad single moms. And some dudes are raised by both parents and still become a simp or a felon.

You nikkas and your defense squad of women knows no bounds
I’m a product of a single parent home and this is complete bullshyt
I love my mother, she was a hard worker but she couldn’t teach me shyt on manhood/fatherhood
It’s not her fault but she does carry some weight with how I turned out
A single mother struggles to find herself
Yeah yeah you goofies will say otherwise
But single mothers hide a lot of shyt from their sons or they over share
The parenting dynamic is off as well
Sometimes as a son you feel you are raising your own mother because she is naive to the shyt men do and have always done
It comes to a head eventually because as a man who had to raise himself in the woods of what manhood is in reality and idealistically are two separate beasts
Not to mention you are uncovering all the shyt inside from either
Having an absent father who didn’t know how to be it because his own father didn’t know
A straight provider and nothing else
Didn’t want you
Passed a way
Or was too addicted to the streets and women
You nikkas don’t ever have fair and balanced opinions
Nor do you post in good faith
You nikkas circle jerk for other weirdos of this forum for unknown reasons to me because we are all faceless strangers
There is a real psychological conversation to be had on single parenthood
From both male and female perspectives and the effects it has on their children

 

[Mugenight]

Do males raised by single mothers grow up with a sense of authority and need to maintain order over their community and women?​

No. fukk what these fakkits tell you it's all bullshyt.

 

[Yinny]

As much as it’s a problem it’s fukked up that you type like it’s always within someone’s control or a guarantee that a boy will grow fukked up. Of course there’s myopia in people acting like it’s something to be celebrated or problem-free but do you invest in kids/male kids raised in single parent homes?

Or just run your mouth on the internet about it?

 

[TEH]

Like I always tell you OP I agree with you on almost everything except religion.

This right here is all facts - a man standing on business now is called sassy.

 

[Savvir]

The whole "raised by single mothers = bad" thing is just misogyny. There are good single moms and bad single moms. And some dudes are raised by both parents and still become a simp or a felon.

The vast majority of men who cause problems across all races… were raised by single moms…

I think it’s an issue that needs to be studied more… but being raised by a single mom has been proven to statistically lower your level of academic achievement, lower your overall health over a lifetime, reduce the chances of you maintaining a two parent household when you have kids, and significantly increase your risk of going to jail.

I haven’t seen a direct comparison between single mom raised children and single father raised children… but I’m willing to bet a lot that single dads do a better job

 

[Unbothered]

Well, sometimes men raised by single mothers are more equipped to understand women and know how to connect, communicate, etc with them.

There are a lot of guys born in two-parent households who don't know how to relate to women and have a false sense of machoness. A lot of dudes on here say they grew up in two-parent households, but they seem to be the ones struggling the most to understand, relate, or even be empathetic with women.

Again, stats are stats; it doesn't always reflect reality because everybody's upbringing is different. Some men were raised by single mothers and grew up to be successful, educated, family men, community leaders, with a wife and kids living in a nice neighborhood, pillars of the community, etc. Then you got dudes raised in two-parent households yet never amounted to anything, living in the hood, multiple baby mamas, can't hold a job, lack of education, etc.

Vice versa, it's not nice to generalize or to always “live and die” by what stats say, you have to take things in the present time.

 

[Stuntone]

Like I always tell you OP I agree with you on almost everything except religion.

This right here is all facts - a man standing on business now is called sassy.

I like a lot of the things u say also. But what about religious do we disagree on?

 

[cyndaquil]

Grown ass men who say they had men in their lives still crying about single mothers

Really man...the obsession is weird. Like do some of yall have nothing in life that the only way to feel like you're better than the next man is the fact you had a father around and he didn't?
I understand the statistics but yall take this fatherless shyt too far at times. And it isn't even coming from a place of wanting to help but just to look down on folks.

 

[TEH]

I like a lot of the things u say also. But what about religious do we disagree on?

I think it’s the men going to church take you have.

 

[AllHolosEve]

-Nah, I was raised by a single mother & grew up watching women do all kinds of fukk shyt. I have no problem calling them out & I've snapped on them for trying to teach my daughter certain shyt.

-My issue with male authority started with resentment but as I got older I came to a different realization. A lot of men running around talking about respect aren't worthy of being respected & they run around talking about honor when they have none. I also realized a lot of the masculinity talk was borderline gay with built in insecurity & inferiority.

-The same dudes talking down on single mothers aren't trying to teach these fatherless young men anything. You're hypocrites that aren't worth listening to on the subject.

-If the provider walked out so the young man goes out & get it himself, of course there's a higher chance of him being caught up in the system.