Yep...
when I'm good and ready...
When I got wit my lady...I got with her
for her. I never attempted to change her. Enlighten her maybe...but not change her.
If I felt like I needed to change you...then I wouldn't get with you in the first place...
Women do the opposite. Im not your personal project tho...
Anytime my lady tried to hit me wit shyt along those lines....I tell her..."I'm sure some cat up the block would likely oblige you...

or go get you Tom from up the block then if that's what you want..guess we've grown apart."
She usually craves me more after my defiance...
I'm me and mostly the same as when u met me. Doesn't mean I don't have room for improvement...but females think its at their drop of a dime...FOH
If it's not a natural progression...it's gonna create resentment or a lack of respect anyway.