Do Men Change Brehs?

[Surreal]

Still hustlin backwards tactics

Why be with someone who has to change for y’all to be together?

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I'm not making a major change for a female. It isn't worth it 95% of the time and they will most likely find something else stupid to complain about later.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Men change on they own terms.

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A man will change elle if he love the woman enough

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Hits the streets and doesn’t say anything. I don’t give a shyt that you go just give a heads up so I can make plans with my own girls instead of waiting to spend time with your goofy ass. I ain’t gonna say don’t go or come home just LET A BREHETTE KNOW SO SHE CAN MAKE MOVES TOO.

Breh: Boo I’m going out after work
Brehette: Ok cool have fun

That 1 sentence will let me know I don’t need to cook and it’s time to hit up the squad and get cute in these streets

What’s the problem here?

Stop letting it bother you by removing the power it has over you and your time.
Stop planning your life according to his if he can’t be considerate enough to give you a heads up. That way he can make moves without feeling bothered and u don’t have to feel resentment wasting food and time.

Make your plans with your homegirls respectfully and if he comes thru then cool. If not, no harm, no foul. Ask him to cook on those nights...or just have a “fend for urself” night.

This is irritating but it doesn’t have to be the power struggle it will become if you don’t moderate your emotional response to this.

 

[Champagne Kudo]

nikkas is selfish b

 

[Elle Driver]

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A man will change elle if he love the woman enough

You can’t force a man to change he gone do what he want to at the end of the day.

 

[Crizzy]

I'll change for my momma. I love that woman. Ppl so fickle they will be in and out our life quick

 

[Crizzy]

And me and my ma dukes done had serious issues but i still would do anything 4 her. My sisters daughters nieces and ole lady are the females i will always be there 4 and to change if necessary (unless the ole lady mess up on sum shyt).


Edit: I'll put my best foot forward to help the situation if i feel it's that important. Not changing for no girlfriend/bae shyt.

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Stop letting it bother you by removing the power it has over you and your time.
Stop planning your life according to his if he can’t be considerate enough to give you a heads up. That way he can make moves without feeling bothered and u don’t have to feel resentment wasting food and time.

Make your plans with your homegirls respectfully and if he comes thru then cool. If not, no harm, no foul. Ask him to cook on those nights...or just have a “fend for urself” night.

This is irritating but it doesn’t have to be the power struggle it will become if you don’t moderate your emotional response to this.

A man will change if his love is strong enough for a woman books

 

[Shadow King]

Your title and your OP are 2 different things, or at least too broad to immediately hitch together. Can you give an example of communication you're lacking or change you're seeking from him?

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

A man will change if his love is strong enough for a woman books

If the love is there both for himself and her, he shouldn’t have to.
He might have to draw some parts already in him to the forefront, but the goal of a relationship shouldn’t be to “transform” somebody.
I hate that concept b/c the power isn’t balanced. There’s an arrogance in that idea. He is just as important as his female counterpart. They can grow together but the idea that one person should make a major transformation to appease a partner doesn’t sound like love. It sounds like manipulation, placation, like they are a supplicant instead of an equal.

Maybe I’m overthinking it babe.

 

[SATAN]

Get to sukkin'

 

[Boolean]

No but you knew that already