Do men like going on dates ?

[GreenGhxst]

these hoes swear they be so sophisticated because they would rather go wine tasting than to the movies... man I just put the money on the table... just kidding (but not really)

My girl wants me to go wine tasting, I said not now and not ever, why the fukk would I want to be around pretentious ass cacs and hear about what it does to their "pallate"

Look at this shyt, this ain't my type of crowd, nikkas are uptight, I'll fukk with a beer tasting though

 

[Terrance Curtis Beasley]

nah

 

[Jahmal]

As a woman I personally hate the getting to know someone process. I don't like wasting time and energy on it.

Cool so come over to my crib for drinks tonight

 

[morris]

You young kids gotta put me on to young game. Don't you guys already screen tour potential dates via the Internet?

Met a beautiful tenderoni..months back... I asked her for her phone number she asked me for my Instagram. I told her i didnt have one... she looked at me like I was weird.

A younger Co worker told me that this generations...version of a screener

 

[Mr210]

Doing too much breh everything in moderation, texting gets stale after a while that's probably why she slowed down

Yea but it wasn't like we were going back and forth all day! 4 messages a piece from both of us doesn't seem like a lot to me

 

[#1 pick]

lets take out the factor that society says you should be paying..... Besides that do y'all like going on them? Or is it something you do because you know it's what the woman wants.


I ask because "chillin" and doingthe least is what's "IN" for some men.

With my fiance, of course.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

Yea but it wasn't like we were going back and forth all day! 4 messages a piece from both of us doesn't seem like a lot to me

It isn't a lot but trust me women need to be put on an "attention diet" from time to time give her a chance to "miss you" then those 4 a day messages will double

 

[re'up]

Yeah, I'm into new restaurants, high end fusion to taco spots, on my own, so going with a cute girl I'm attracted to is just extra, aside from eating, just hanging out in dope places with bad girl is fun......This whole mindset of no dates and no dinner is kind of comical, have a good judge of character, and a little money in your pocket, and you'll never feel like you wasted your money. I've never felt cheated or slighted on a date, or a girl just wanted a meal from me....don't hang out with trashy people/women, or use a sliding scale....

 

[Mr210]

It isn't a lot but trust me women need to be put on an "attention diet" from time to time give her a chance to "miss you" then those 4 a day messages will double

The crazy thing is, the last time me and her got together on Thursday she asked to pay because in her words I had paid for the other 4 times we went out. I wasn't expecting that, we hugged and kissed as usual

 

[At30wecashout]

As a woman I personally hate the getting to know someone process. I don't like wasting time and energy on it.

Especially since most folks wanna be on their best behavior, so you get surprised with some janky shyt when you already fell for them

I can tell you stories. Thinking "I wish this bish would have revealed this before I spent $200:letyasoulglow:"

 

[Box Cutta]

I can't do dinner and movie.

ANYTHING else is better.

Going to the park for a picnic for instance >>>

 

[KinksandCoils]

I feel the same. You'd be surprised how much the quick gems thread can be used for advice for women too

Especially since most folks wanna be on their best behavior, so you get surprised with some janky shyt when you already fell for them

I can tell you stories. Thinking "I wish this bish would have revealed this before I spent $200:letyasoulglow:"

 

[Denzel_Saucegton]

Dates can be cool if only going out to eat or the movies. Swear 9/10 times you hear a female asking where are we going to go...and when you choose 9/10 you're going to pay. That's the only reason these females want you to go out. Once that stops in most cases she cancels communication.

 

[At30wecashout]

I feel the same. You'd be surprised how much the quick gems thread can be used for advice for women too

Good advice is good advice, and while I didn't have anyone to tell me (I learned the hard way), fact is, minimize losses.

Gotta be able to have fun without shyt, and keep your expectations within reasonable levels. Todays "the one" is tomorrows heartache. It doesn't always go that way, but the
fact is, most people we like won't be the ones we can or should keep...so putting all eggs into one basket too soon is a recipe for disaster.

 

[Ohene]

Unless im drunk, no absolutely not

I'm a good socializer and I can hold conversation without being awkward and blah blah but I don't like that shyt, I just kind of do it because I'd be a weirdo if I didnt and I'd never get laid/find love if I didn't

pretty much. if girls werent apprehensive about coming to cribs and going for walks and shyt thats all i'd do for the most part