Do men like going on dates ?
- Thread starter KinksandCoils
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HollowPoints2
Don Makaveli.
As a 29 year old dude(with no kids)playing the field, I do like takin' different females out to restaurants on the sunset strip just to see where their mind is at. $100 for the night which includes gas,food,movie and a hotel for one hour with a Cali 10.
Real nikkas do this shyt in they 20's just to play the field out here in Cali.Of course,you must have a stable income b/c if she gets pregnant it's time to put up or shut up.
I used to before more women wanted to be whores. 
It was a way you can get to know their personality quicker by seeing how they are in a public setting. Easier to weed out the gold diggers /rude bytches /social media conscious chicks .
Also , I just like going out and doing shyt.
My friends mostly thought I was making too much of an effort , preferring the "kick it"/Netflix and chill .
Like a walk in the park/ bar over drinks is doing too much
It was a way you can get to know their personality quicker by seeing how they are in a public setting. Easier to weed out the gold diggers /rude bytches /social media conscious chicks .
Also , I just like going out and doing shyt.
My friends mostly thought I was making too much of an effort , preferring the "kick it"/Netflix and chill .
Like a walk in the park/ bar over drinks is doing too much
I love the shyt, personally.
Everything from going on actual picnics to going to see a play and then going to some bourgeoisie restaurant so the old white people can stare at us.
Biggest problem with being open to doing it, though, is some women would have you doing the most every other day (or a once a week minimum in their mind), not really caring how much of your finances they drain..
Like fukk.... lets just go to Barnes and Noble and eat their nasty, day old desserts together sometimes.
Everything from going on actual picnics to going to see a play and then going to some bourgeoisie restaurant so the old white people can stare at us.
Biggest problem with being open to doing it, though, is some women would have you doing the most every other day (or a once a week minimum in their mind), not really caring how much of your finances they drain..
Like fukk.... lets just go to Barnes and Noble and eat their nasty, day old desserts together sometimes.
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
How? It's true. I said some men.This thread would have so much more potential if you had just left this part out. Oh well...
O.T.I.S.
The Monk & The Mercenary
Nope
I like chilling and doing the least and want a chick that wants the same.
Going out to eat sometimes yeah, doing small, quiet shyt im cool with. Maybe sportsbars, karaoke, etc.
But no, i dont want to go to a club with you. I dont want to go to fancy, overpopulated, over priced places, no i dont want to go to events if its not mutually interesting, and no i dont want to drive for hours just to do anything.
So no, i dont care about going on dates
Virtuous_Brotha
Superstar
I love dates but can't stand the long winded process often needed to get to them 
StickStickly
Superstar
Question though, Do a lot of women do this though? Expect the most from all dates, for you to drain your pockets each time you're together? I guess I know more laid back couples than I do high maintenance ones.
Thank god I'm not single anymore worrying about shyt like "dating", the fukking worst
I like dating but the process can be annoying, for example I have been talking to this woman for 3 weeks, we have seen each other 5 times, we just saw each other on Thursday. We have been texting everyday, but all of a sudden I sent 2 text yesterday and have yet to get a response
not necessarily but, there's a lot of things I want to do, that I'm not going to do by myself.. so it works out
Only if there's somewhere I need or want to go, like a show, a new restaurant, a new venue.
I dislike going places by myself, and the majority of women my age haven't gone on a real date so they get excited about it.
I don't find the "getting to know" process to be at all fun, especially because more likely than not I'm going to immediately find a portion of your personality I don't like.
If its with someone I've gotten to know, then I'll be far more excited about it.
I dislike going places by myself, and the majority of women my age haven't gone on a real date so they get excited about it.
I don't find the "getting to know" process to be at all fun, especially because more likely than not I'm going to immediately find a portion of your personality I don't like.
If its with someone I've gotten to know, then I'll be far more excited about it.
I love dates, there are so many nice chill restaurants in miami you can just chill, eat, drink, talk and be all 
the whole night.
the whole night.