Years ago I had a roomie/co worker. Breh was in the midst of a mind numbing slump. I’m talking 4 years or so. Breh just lost all confidence talking to women and low key gave up.
One day a past co worker came by the job to say hi to everyone. She was a older chick. Body was

For her age but her face was

She said hi to me. And told my roomie to call her sometime
My roomie totally missed the signal.

I said yo. This is your slump buster. Knock her down. Get your mojo back. Then your in the game again
He calls her. The hookup. He is giddy. But this fool

Ends up falling for the okey doke. Moves out of our apartment and in with her. He ends up being miserable she had his ass hostage in a relationship for 3 years. My homie did not drive (license revoked due to dui’s). So she had control of his transportation and his living situation
He would cry to me about how miserable he is. I would be

and tell him she was a slump buster only. You fukked up!