Do people randomly tell you private things?

[iFightSeagullsForBread]

Makes me realize how easy my life is, and not take people for granted.

 

[Ineedmoney504]

I get it a lot also. A lot of times in places I don't want to hear it at. Like work, telling me bout they boyfriend and other people telling me they bout to be evicted and shyt

 

[concise]

I'm used to it now, but I still don't know what it is exactly that draws them to me?

Do you think we have some sort of aura/energy? I don't think I act any differently than others.. for them to feel so comfortable to divulge some of their deepest darkest secrets with me.

idk, I'm starting to think it might be. I been in some weird conversations and situations in some weird places.

Do you think that has something to do with you being light skinned?

Midnightboy checking in, seeing the same things.

 

[Monster]

I think I used to before I became weak of character because of misaligned bite

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

people who are going through some sort of problems or struggles tend to be drawn to me a lot. I have that quiet/good hearted demeanour so people often approach me for favours or to talk about private things.
The downside to that is that is hard to tell if they are really my friend or using me just to fill a void in their life.
it can be frustrating at times, especially with regards to women because in the past it has made me think they were actually interested in me as a person but esentially our "relationship" was all about handouts

 

[ThisIsLife]

Yes all the time. I'm an empath and for some reason people are drawn to us. I always listen, give a little input and keep it moving. Sometimes it's awkward on my end.

Too bad I don't feel comfortable with telling others about my problems.

 

[AAKing23]

All the time, I'm very quiet and soft-spoken

 

[raw613]

All the time ,people act really familiar around me in general for some reason lol

 

[Behind-the-wheel]

Nope.

I generally look like this on a day to day basis

People call me unapproachable

Same here...just not as handsome as him.
EDIT: My friend count is like 2 out of the last 10 years....

 

[H@LLOW]

This chick at my job told me her current boyfriend doesn't fukk her in the ass and she doesn't know how to get him to do it anymore. He claims is gay but she want to feel dominated by the cock in the ass.

 

[Danny Up]

Nope.

I generally look like this on a day to day basis

People call me unapproachable

Me too but people still tell me stuff. And i'm still looking like who gives a fukk

 

[Rich Spirit]

I get it a lot also. A lot of times in places I don't want to hear it at. Like work, telling me bout they boyfriend and other people telling me they bout to be evicted and shyt

That's why I'm never in the breakroom to eat or do anything

 

[DrX]

Ppl do it to me, esp clients....best thing to do is listen then get them to buy something from u

Therapist get paid...

 

[jackswstd]

It happens to me all the time. I chalk it up to them feeling like they have no one trustworthy to tell. If that brief convo made their day less stressful by me listening, I feel good about it.

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Yea. I keep things to myself I guess they catch a vibe iunno