during that break, did yall mess with other people? What happened to the relationship after getting back together?Hell yes. At least for me, it has worked at least once.
But it requires you to really take the break seriously and look at it as a time when you are both living your separate lives and whatever happened during the break, you don't hold it against each other.
With that being said, when I did it, it wasn't like we said "we're taking a break". We just stopped communicating and started doing our own thing and eventually came back together several months later.
I couldn't agree more.. well saidwould be interested to hear people's opinions
my personal opinion is that they dont work and are usually only offered as a means to cowardly and passively break up by slowly drifing away.
i tell every girl I am with that I treat breaks as break ups. If you wanna come back cool, but best believe I would have been getting it in with other hoes during the "break" and there is a good chance I will have found your replacement too
the bolded is the key for meNah. It's just a workaround. Women use it to break up permanently or go fukk with someone they've been wanting to fukk with then try to come back to get some love. Also sets a bad precedent in terms of commitment.
Basically this.Nah. It's just a workaround. Women use it to break up permanently or go fukk with someone they've been wanting to fukk with then try to come back to get some love. Also sets a bad precedent in terms of commitment.