Do single women with kids really expect this?

[knickscity]

Why even date women with kids if you don't have any tho?

Honestly don't see an issue. When I was younger, I dated a few women that had kids. Shyt wasn't serious to me. Sometimes I'd bring the kids some happy meals then me and they mama handle our business.

Like I said shyt wasn't serious, I'm not their dad, not trying to be. Those females understood perfectly.

 

[Prynce]

Honestly don't see an issue. When I was younger, I dated a few women that had kids. Shyt wasn't serious to me. Sometimes I'd bring the kids some happy meals then me and they mama handle our business.

Like I said shyt wasn't serious, I'm not their dad, not trying to be. Those females understood perfectly.

I respect that tbh bro

 

[Daio]

The single mothers I get with don't ask me to be in their childs lives. The father is around and gets custody. The parents just aren't together.

 

[Prynce]

The single mothers I get with don't ask me to be in their childs lives. The father is around and gets custody. The parents just aren't together.

Just fukking wit u homie

 

[DUCKED_OFF]

They should of preached this before they let that dude raw them

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

You say that like we're losers

Well at least i'm not

You just said you don't know how to be a role model to a kid at 24. You weren't tought how to be a decent law abiding citzen in 24 years of life??

 

[Da King]

Sorry, but if you're a bird with a kid and looking for a man then you fukked up and have to pay for the consequences. You can't expect to get the top picks, birds need to lower their standards

 

[The ADD]

I don’t see how you could be seriously involved with a chick with a kid and not be expected to do that.

Just the same if you don’t want to there is nothing wrong with that.

 

[Prynce]

You just said you don't know how to be a role model to a kid at 24. You weren't tought how to be a decent law abiding citzen in 24 years of life??

I'm college educated, never been arrested, no drama in my life and ect. I'm a decent person but I'm still far from having life figured out. Don't really see much I can teach a kid to keep a buck wit u. Maybe when I'm 30 and slowed down.

Maybe I think being a role model is different than what it actually is

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

The girl in my avi is one of them. She tried to pull that shyt on me I deaded it instantly.

Talked to her New Year. She was pregnant with her third child by baby daddy no3. He is with another woman.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

I'm college educated, never been arrested, no drama in my life and ect. I'm a decent person but I'm still far from having life figured out. Don't really see much I can teach a kid to keep a buck wit u. Maybe when I'm 30 and slowed down.

Maybe I think being a role model is different than what it actually is

Well that's you.

 

[MaxBundles]

Honestly don't see an issue. When I was younger, I dated a few women that had kids. Shyt wasn't serious to me. Sometimes I'd bring the kids some happy meals then me and they mama handle our business.

Like I said shyt wasn't serious, I'm not their dad, not trying to be. Those females understood perfectly.

The single mothers I get with don't ask me to be in their childs lives. The father is around and gets custody. The parents just aren't together.

Basically these been my experience when dating a woman with kids

 

[Prynce]

Well that's you.

true

 

[Benefited]

I'm college educated, never been arrested, no drama in my life and ect. I'm a decent person but I'm still far from having life figured out. Don't really see much I can teach a kid to keep a buck wit u. Maybe when I'm 30 and slowed down.

Maybe I think being a role model is different than what it actually is

Maybe you can teach them how to get to college,have no drama in their life,and how to be a decent person?

Plus you do realize if there are single mothers,there are single fathers right?

The fact you guys fault single mothers for having standards,but don't think single fathers need to have any standards is very telling.

Why don't you guys think single fathers should have standards like this,and should be allowed to go around fukking any loser bytch they want to?

Maybe if they did,nikkas wouldn't end up with multiple baby mothers across the city. Maybe you guys should put the same pressure on single fathers to grow up,and get some standards before they choose the next woman to nut in. Who could potentially be around their kids if they fukk up and nut in another woman by mistake.

 

[Nicole0416_718_929_646212]

I hope stupid ass nikkas not falling for this

No. That’s not a realistic expectation ; you can’t put that responsibility on another man (not even related)to the child for what the father is supposed to do. That’s two separate and distinct roles - dating and being a role model. Negative influences shouldn’t be brought around the child either. Lastly, Don’t bring anyone you date around your child, so that’s a moot issue, imo. Later on after the relationship is developed, progressed and y’all have history; then the standards could be discussed. But just to expect that or put that on someone during the casual course of dating, no. Y’all are just getting to know each other yourselves or you may have different expectations. The first place a child should look for a role model is in the home - be a good mother and establish stability, values.