Me and my guy have been involved for the better part of 3yrs. More off than on the last few months. We both dated other ppl but decided to get back together. Been talking again since the summer but I just found out he has still been f****ng his ex.
Idk how long, idk how often, he hasn't been forth coming with details (apparently he's been reading the "Quick lil gems on dealing with women thread...."lol). He says he stopped talking to the girl but i don't believe him at all. Their thing wasn't just sex, there was a lot emotional ties and i don't think he cld drop it just like that. I half wish he wlda hooked up with a random broad so ties cld easily be broken but this girl talking bout marriage with him.
My first instinct was to just toss him to the side but its hard to let go. He's my best friend, and has been for years. We have a great time together and he is the only one who gets my twisted humor. But i just don't believe a word that comes out his mouth anymore. I question everything he tells me.
Basically im at a crossroad right now. I don't know how much I shld let him in my life. Do I give him a second chance, do i just stay friends or do i just cut him out all together?