do u get mad if a person u are feeling doesn't text u back fast enough

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I am guilty of intentionally, or unintentionally falling into the WYD thing, meaning responding literally, it's generally an invitation, not a actual question. Like a more loaded phatic gesture (example: How are you), but, it isn't much easier, if someone just says "Come over", rather than WYD, Hey, WYA, but the acronym allows something of a shield behind the actual reason.

If someone texts WYD, that you think is into you, generally just hit them back asking where they are, and if they want to meet up
 
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It’s insulting. No point tryna spin it any other way.

I’m past getting mad tho. I just let it show where I stand with them and proceed accordingly.
 

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I respond hours late sometimes so it don’t bother me at all.
Sometimes I don’t feel like dealing wit humans
 

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If you do get in your feelings over it, about the worst thing you can do is let her know you're hurting. :usure: If you feel games are being played or that you're clearly more interested in her than she is you, take a step back. Not saying disconnect entirely, but pump the brakes. If you're a man that's dating, you have to come to terms with the objective fact that most of the time, it's not your p*ssy, it's just your turn.


Women can be flaky early on during the initial stages of hooking up. They have men getting at them daily. She has tiers and when you're top priority, she won't waste time letting you know. Always keep a stable of your own options and refrain from getting in your feelings. The game is the game. :manny:


You shouldn't he texting at length early on anyway. You should be texting with purpose, chiefly to set up face to face meetings. Early, small talk texting is typically stagnant. It isn't moving the attraction forward. Text with the intent to escalate and if she flakes or doesn't give you the energy you're seeking, move on.
 
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lol.

i text back immediately when my ringer is on, doesn't mean i like you, just courtesy. on the other hand my phone is on silent for most of the day and im not one of those type who walks around with my phone attached to my hand all day, so i may not text back for an hour even if i really like you.

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