Do u really think women turn men down because of there height?

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I’ve had many women tell me that they prefer taller men because they wear heels and don’t want to be all towering over a nikka lol. Most women i’ve dated have been between 5 ‘5’ and 5’9’. I dated one woman who was a legit 6 feet. I’m 6 foot 2 and i’ve had women comment “Oh good your tall”. So it’s definitely a PREFERENCE amongst women i’ll say.
 

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Yes they do. :yeshrug:
I’m not sure this is a big deal tho. :patrice:.
it's a big deal for dudes because you can't change your height and you can't really do anything if a woman dubs you for being short.
:yeshrug:i'm short so i get it. it's frustrating. and it can suck to be rejected for something you about yourself you can't control and is generally universally an unattractive trait

only thing you can do is get in where you fit in:yeshrug:
 

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I’ve had many women tell me that they prefer taller men because they wear heels and don’t want to be all towering over a nikka lol. Most women i’ve dated have been between 5 ‘5’ and 5’9’. I dated one woman who was a legit 6 feet. I’m 6 foot 2 and i’ve had women comment “Oh good your tall”. So it’s definitely a PREFERENCE amongst women i’ll say.
I'll never understand why tall women feel such a need to wear heels. :martin:
 

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it's a big deal for dudes because you can't change your height and you can't really do anything if a woman dubs you for being short.
:yeshrug:i'm short so i get it. it's frustrating. and it can suck to be rejected for something you about yourself you can't control and is generally universally an unattractive trait

only thing you can do is get in where you fit in:yeshrug:
How short?
 

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Why do y’all insist on painting 5’9”-5’10” as short. That’s average height for American men.:mindblown:
And then proceed to claim 6’0”-6’1” like it’s 6’9”. Y’all doing the opposite of what you want.:mjlol:
Because that's how desirable women in their 20s look at it.
 

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Yes they do. :yeshrug:
I’m not sure this is a big deal tho. :patrice:Doesn’t everybody reject anybody that they aren’t attracted to? Kinda feels like we making a big deal out of normal stuff only when women do it.

I.e. shytting: birds do it, dogs do it, babies do it, men do it. But somehow...it’s nasty if women do it.

Displaying emotion: animals do it, babies do it, men do it...but somehow it’s a problem if women do it.

Having sex: Well you know how that goes...

By now you get my drift.

It just seems like women having any physical preferences is demonized even though it’s completely natural.

So yes. There are some chicks who don’t want to date shorter guys. And there’s nothing wrong with that.

Do men reject chicks if their asses ain’t fat, don’t have the right skin tone, don’t have enough titties, don’t like the way their faces look, don’t have pretty feet, don’t like the way their hair looks, don’t like the shape of their mouths? Eyes too far apart...

But other factors can impact the degree to which height is taken into consideration.

Nah you're capping on some of those. Men showing emotion and having physical standards have been shat on for decades. And it is still not acceptable on national TV or public settings for man to say that a girl is too fat but it is fine for women to make mean-spirited comments about men's appearance.

I'm not saying women shouldn't have standards though.

I'm not even short but I can feel bad for them. Are you friends with a 5'4 dude? Its rough. I was friends with one who was very outgoing, great social skills, in shape, genuinely handsome (looked like a young Richard Gere), funny as hell without it being too clowny, etc. Had a lot going for him, but still got rejected whenever he brought up his height on Tinder, and even in public, still got stood up or got snarky remarks from chicks. He still got a girlfriend, but you know the rejection will get to him.

I feel like it's harder for women to relate because the average women (even some below average ones) still have some guys - even if they are not their type - approaching them, but the truth is for men is that it doesn't scale like that.

I'm not saying short dudes can't ever get a girlfriend. But shyt, its obviously harder. Are we really going to pretend like all else equal, a 5'3 guy and 6'3 have the same shot?
 

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Yes. Last year my homegirls surprised me with a birthday party and one of my boys fell thru.

He’s about 5’6 and one of my single homegirls kept making little jabs about his height. I told her he has a lot going for himself, but she wasn’t hearing it. Her last man (also a friend of mine) is around that height and she said she ain’t messin’ with short guys anymore.

After a while I told her to cut that shyt out :thumbsdown:

It’s cool to have preferences, but no need to keep pokin’ at someone for something they have zero control over.

Edit: grammatical errors
 
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