Do women ever take accountability for their actions?

[O.T.I.S.]

No, they don’t

 

[analog]

If there's a woman who thinks rationally and is capable of holding herself accountable, then please point me in her direction.

 

[Patrick Kane]

Yeah I think you take the accountability for the person you chose, yes you -imo- take things slow and vet your potential partner. But if that person is lying to you, how is that your fault?

Everyday it’s a girl that gets used for sex and tossed off to the side right after by someone that was wearing “a mask”. Everyday, men get messed over by women for their $ or livelihood by someone wearing “a mask”

How do you take accountability for being gaslighted, manipulated and lied to? (Also, if this person KNOWS this stuff is going on, it’s a completely different story * )

Bruh whether you choose to admit it or not, when you’re in a relationship with someone or in the “getting to know”
Stage, signs and red flags pop up. Something they said. Something sketchy in their actions. It happens multiple times and people let it slide because of fear of loneliness, insecurities, etc. People don’t just become monsters overnight that were using and abusing you. But people don’t like to admit this part because they’re too weak, have a low self esteem, they invested too much time and energy and don’t wanna pull back but all of that is still on THEM. If you’re naive and don’t have relationship experience, yes this can happen, at that point, you most likely are weak and may get take advantage of but after 1, 2, 3 situations/relationships, if this keeps happening, who’s really the problem? This is what I’m trying to say bruh.


People gotta stop victimizing themselves in relationships and look at themselves in the mirror and what THEY did wrong. Too often people have a vision of they want want the person to be, or the relationship to be and they force the situation because what they put in instead of walking away. This is where accountability comes in.

 

[Neuromancer]

Nope because people will enable them.

 

[Bossyyyyy]

Bruh whether you choose to admit it or not, when you’re in a relationship with someone or in the “getting to know”
Stage, signs and red flags pop up. Something they said. Something sketchy in their actions. It happens multiple times and people let it slide because of fear of loneliness, insecurities, etc. People don’t just become monsters overnight that were using and abusing you. But people don’t like to admit this part because they’re too weak, have a low self esteem, they invested too much time and energy and don’t wanna pull back but all of that is still on THEM. If you’re naive and don’t have relationship experience, yes this can happen, at that point, you most likely are weak and may get take advantage of but after 1, 2, 3 situations/relationships, if this keeps happening, who’s really the problem? This is what I’m trying to say bruh.


People gotta stop victimizing themselves in relationships and look at themselves in the mirror and what THEY did wrong. Too often people have a vision of they want want the person to be, or the relationship to be and they force the situation because what they put in instead of walking away. This is where accountability comes in.

Ok ok after reading this and understanding your perspective, I can agree with you here.