Exactly. This shyt happened to me last year. I started taking blood pressure medication and PLUS I had a recent vasectomy, which both affected my sex drive greatly as side effects. Plus I was heavily stressed because I was dealing with a custody issue and a sickness with my father. Told this stupid bytch that I was dating at the time MULTIPLE times what I was dealing with and was transparent about everything and didn't hide shyt. She kept pressuring me to fukk. When we finally did the do, I just wasn't into it like that. dikk barely stayed hard because she was a cold fish in bed PLUS the aforementioned shyt. Predictably, I didn't cum. This bytch immediately went into "sorry that you're not attracted to me and I'm sure that I don't measure up to your other bytches"
This is AFTER I took great care to explain to her everything that was going on with me. She immediately disregarded everything I told her and made the shyt about her. Smh. I'm 40 years old and I've seen this multiple times. You would think that I would get it by now. No use in explaining shyt to a woman. They're gonna think whatever the fukk they gonna think anyway, so we men might as well save our breath and energy and let them jump to whatever conclusion they're inevitably gonna jump to