Do women hold on to"the one"

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Women are very confused these days. They could be fukkin a chick with a strap on for all I know and hold on to a dude who they like a lot. They also could just keep him in his mind and gaslight him until the day comes that’s if it ever does. We are living in a weird world now. Ain’t pregnancies down? Relationships falling? This pandemic damaged a lot of things.

Dating, gender relations, and modern women were broken long before coronavirus was a regularly spoken term
 

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We all think we are :francis:

Some of yall probably are though. Had three reach out to me wanting to be together again. A fourth who i would consider my strongest love said I was her most memorable but, i already knew that because the sh*t I did with her aint getting overwritten unless she get chose by a rich nikka. She's too proud to ever be in my DMs like the others but, after I friended her I caught her posting subliminals about me :russ:To put it in persepective, I've dumped almost every woman I've dated. Only two quit me.
 

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People are more careful nowadays.

If i could surmise the feeling/aura/zeitgeist around the dating scene, it's transactional and superficial. People usually deal with people off of what they can do for them and aesthetics but expect deep genuine, lasting connections. At this point I just keep to myself
 
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It may seem like women move on, but they often get stuck. This is especially present in women who have been divorced by their early to mid 30s. Them hoes are the WORST. Bring up their ex husband, talking shyt, when deep down they know they most likely failed as a wife. shyt is the ultimate ether for women who get divorced and don't have kids. I try to stay away from them like the plague.
 

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If i could surmise the feeling/aura/zeitgeist around the dating scene, it's transactional and superficial. People use deal with people off of what they can do for them and aesthetics but expect deep genuine, lasting connections. At this point I just keep to myself


It's getting hard to find someone you can really care for. They're very egotistical and it's not a equal connection, once you see their for themselves it reveals a red flag. Who knows what skeletons they hide. It's gotta be trauma the way that they act. If they're dating around trying to find somebody to be happy it might be them that's damaged. Then that bleeds into the relationship later on. A person who jumps in and out of relationships is not really a good choice.
 

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For 95% of women in the western world, the one arrives around 26-27 only after having their backs blown out in their early 20s.

That's not the one.

The one is the guy who doesn't make sense, who is a bit off a fukk up, or couldn't get his shiit together. But for whatever reason that guy will always have a place in her heart and mind.
 

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It's getting hard to find someone you can really care for. They're very egotistical and it's not a equal connection, once you see their for themselves it reveals a red flag. Who knows what skeletons they hide. It's gotta be trauma the way that they act. If they're dating around trying to find somebody to be happy it might be them that's damaged. Then that bleeds into the relationship later on. A person who jumps in and out of relationships is not really a good choice.

I've accepted that I'll probably be single for most of life and am just working on self improvement/salvaging the remainder of my existence.
 
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