Do women really not like being approached in public

[Solo ✧✦✧]

It depends on who's doing the approaching. When a below average or basic looking dude approaches your average woman then it's a problem or they're being harassed.

If a pretty boy or athletic dude approaches them then the rules change. When women are physically attracted to a man or a man has charisma that attracts them it makes a big difference in how receptive they are to being approached. I don't pay attention to women acting like they don't want to be approached period by men. Many just want to pick and choose who approaches them.

 

[NoStressB]

It's because some of you nikkas be OD thirsty as fukk ruining it for all the normal civilized brehs

 

[Clive42]

I've been paying attention to this metoo shytstorm and how hard some of these women go at most men that approach, incels and any man they feel will be a bother to them.

I understand how their safety should come first, but Im starting to think that many of these women are going hard on these men to justify their hatred of men they are NOT attracted to. These men should more or less die in their eyes and some will not hesitate to have you locked up far away from the public just for even looking at them.

Thats if your not their type obviously.

 

[dora_da_destroyer]

really depends. one thing i never liked was for men to follow me or walk alongside me. if i didn't stop when you tried to get my attention, then feel free to not pursue. otherwise, i don't mind, just be respectful

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Depends on the approach.
Dont approach me like you want something from me or you trynna sell something. Make it no pressure.

Im nice and polite and when you make it casual, I enjoy the experience and you might get my number at the end of it.

That's why it seems like women like guys who act like they don't care. It's really the confidence in self and lack of desperation that's attractive.

Yeah I've never put pressure on a woman. I think it helps that I have things I value over women which means I'm not going out my way to approach or do favors

 

[Blankthawtz]

not if u comin at her like.....

 

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They can tell u

I don't mind men approaching me - Doing what it do.

I do mind how I'm approached though:

Random guy - Hey, come here...let me talk to you.

Me -

 

[Clive42]

chicks like being approached by men they find attractive
chicks dont like being approached by men they dont find attractive

/thread

Even this, some slyly still like because it lets them (and others around them) know how desirable they are and will definitely gas em up further.

Like imagine 1000 plain dudes liking a chicks instagram pic and she aint into any of them. How would she feel if all them likes vansihed the next morning?

 

[Software]

Yeah I've never put pressure on a woman. I think it helps that I have things I value over women which means I'm not going out my way to approach or do favors

Yup that's called living your life.
When your whole life revolves around women you will a) not be confident because you're worried about their approval and not prioritizing goals b) make choices that aren't good for you just to appease or try to get a woman c) women want men that have a life without them not just with them d) be sad cuz you cant figure them out, women are more emotional and less rational in the things that they do interpersonally. Their emotional intelligence is much higher than ours and you will never be able to think like them so forget about it. Learn to communicate instead

When you lead a life following your goals you naturally meet women and it's up to you to make sure you're vigilant for signals and approach correctly.

 

[ben anderson]

Sure it depends on the guy and women will make exceptions if the candidate meets her requirements but your confusion about why a woman would be bothered is exactly the problem. You hold the opinion that a woman shouldn't be bothered if you "do everything correctly" when none of that really matters if a woman is trying to get to her destination without fielding callers.

Imagine you're on a bus trying to get to work and a nikka is persistently trying to sell you life insurance, in his mind, he's very prepared, is clean cut, knows the policies and has his spiel down to 30 seconds, in your mind, you're simply not interested and it has NOTHING to do with him, he's not entitled to your time and you're not obligated to spend it listening to his pitch.

That was a pretty clever analogy. Might be the only thing you’ve ever said that I’ll agree with

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Everyone in this thread so far has a good job at summing up how I feel about being approached in public. Good looks, the approach, how I'm feeling at the time, where I am at when I'm approached, etc. matters.

 

[Marco Zen]

Timing and atmosphere

 

[Coco Loco]

Not saying that I care, because I'm gone approach anyway, but it does make me think. With the feminist movement a lot of em shout to leave them alone and stop bothering them. How they just wanna go about their day and shop without getting interrupted.

What I don't understand is how do they feel harassed if it's in a respectable manner. Maybe its for thirsty simps who don't know when to stop and just keep harassing them. I've never felt a reason to call a woman out her name all because she said no and I've never catcalled. Even if you ugly gang, as long as you're respectful, clean, and dressed nice why would a woman be bothered?


I don't know if that's true or not, just made me think. I know there's some dudes on here that advocate cold approaching and I definitely wanna get into it

Honestly, because you're not entitled to anyone's time. Plain and simple. No matter how respectful a man is, a woman doesn't owe him her time, a reaction or her attention. Even if we respectfully decline any offers and say no thank you while trying to walk away/end the interaction it never ends there. If it does it's rare. I just want men to stop thinking if they're nice, mean no harm or are just trying to engage someone in conversation that women owe y'all anything. Once men get that, it'll be so much easier.

This is in no way telling men to stop approaching but it's the expectation of reciprocity that's a major issue. If you approach and she's open to conversation and giving you eye contact and smiling, by all means go for it. If she's not, keep it moving. Same with women, we aren't entitled to things as well.

I know I'm about to set keyboards on fire but I'm just being honest.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Honestly, because you're not entitled to anyone's time. Plain and simple. No matter how respectful a man is, a woman doesn't owe him her time, a reaction or her attention. Even if we respectfully decline any offers and say no thank you while trying to walk away/end the interaction it never ends there. If it doesn't it's rare. I just want men to stop thinking if they're nice, mean no harm or are just trying to engage someone in conversation that women don't owe y'all anything. Once men get that, it'll be so much easier.

This is in no way telling men to stop approaching but it's the expectation of reciprocity that's a major issue. If you approach and she's open to conversation and giving you eye contacting and smiling, by all means go for it. If she's not, keep it moving. Same with women, we aren't entitled to things as well.

I know I'm about to set keyboards on fire but I'm just being honest.

It is what it is

 

[The Fade]

broads love it when you follow them and yell AYYO MA

LET ME TALK TO YOU FO SECOND