Do women really not like being approached in public

[Ghost_In_A_Shell]

that depends, how did you approach her

 

[⠀⠀⠀]

she give you that look if she wants you to approach her

 

[Big Simpin Losing Cheese]

Women are unapproachable in general from dating apps,social events and public places. Its waste of time trying to court them, they ignoring in-shape men, men with money and men who dress fashionable.

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Alot of women in this younger generation are somewhat socially awkward anyway and face to face interactions with random be making em nervous...shyt men too


Most want to be approached by men they want to be approached by.

shyt I get it...it's annoying when people almost feel entitled to you because they find you attractive.

My #handsome gang brehs know whats up...

 

[Marco Zen]

I usually approach them with some casual dumb shyt to say. Something funny but not an all out joke.. Then read their body language when they respond.. Women usually give off a friendly vibe but there are other signs you can pick up on to know if you should continue running your mouth..

I still keep it short though.. Short enough for her to listen to me talk and "check me out" for 30 seconds... Then the kill shot, asking her can I contact her some time...


Never walk up on them and surprise them like from behind and never start the conversation off asking if she has a man..

I have more tips that I can share for a small fee

 

[Jasonmask]

Some of y’all don’t understand how easy it is to talk to pretty girls If you ain’t nervous

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Some of y’all don’t understand how easy it is to talk to pretty girls If you ain’t nervous

I remember some bad exotical jawn was walking with her date..a thick pawg..both in tight dresses.

Dude just starting at them, "damn girl "

We were both at a stoplight and I gave them a little compliment and shorty looked me up and down like I was food..made small talk then she gave me a hug before they walked off

I was

Her white girlfriend was ...



Take em off the pedestal and treat em like any other chick.

Women are supposed to be over us...not the other way around.

 

[KillerB88]

Sure it depends on the guy and women will make exceptions if the candidate meets her requirements but your confusion about why a woman would be bothered is exactly the problem. You hold the opinion that a woman shouldn't be bothered if you "do everything correctly" when none of that really matters if a woman is trying to get to her destination without fielding callers.

Imagine you're on a bus trying to get to work and a nikka is persistently trying to sell you life insurance, in his mind, he's very prepared, is clean cut, knows the policies and has his spiel down to 30 seconds, in your mind, you're simply not interested and it has NOTHING to do with him, he's not entitled to your time and you're not obligated to spend it listening to his pitch.

Fair. But I've never heard of a woman turning 40 and hollering about where all the good life insurance policies went. There is an underlying complexity in human interaction when it comes to wooing someone that you're overlooking in your example.

 

[Software]

broads love it when you follow them and yell AYYO MA

LET ME TALK TO YOU FO SECOND

@Nicole0416 ain't that the mating call where your from?

 

[BlaqkSpliffin]

I usually approach them with some casual dumb shyt to say. Something funny but not an all out joke.. Then read their body language when they respond.. Women usually give off a friendly vibe but there are other signs you can pick up on to know if you should continue running your mouth..

I still keep it short though.. Short enough for her to listen to me talk and "check me out" for 30 seconds... Then the kill shot, asking her can I contact her some time...


Never walk up on them and surprise them like from behind and never start the conversation off asking if she has a man..

I have more tips that I can share for a small fee

This! Reading body language is a huge thing. Having some semblance of game is also important. I used to get away with the cute awkward funny routine before my beard grew in.

And as people have said in here, CONFIDENCE is key. Not arrogance or that fake smug shyt. But just general authentic confidence and charm. shyt works most of the time....if you're attractive.

 

[colicolicoli]

Nah, i'm used to it.

It's only annoying once you've turned them down (verbally or nonverbally) and they keep shooting.

 

[KillerB88]

I remember some bad exotical jawn was walking with her date..a thick pawg..both in tight dresses.

Dude just starting at them, "damn girl "

We were both at a stoplight and I gave them a little compliment and shorty looked me up and down like I was food..made small talk then she gave me a hug before they walked off

I was

Her white girlfriend was ...



Take em off the pedestal and treat em like any other chick.

Women are supposed to be over us...not the other way around.

nikka no one cares about how some random girl gave you a church hug.

 

[mag357]

If she thinks ur attractive... the end
Or ur money's attractive

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

nikka no one cares about how some random girl gave you a church hug.

 

[Matt504]

Fair. But I've never heard of a woman turning 40 and hollering about where all the good life insurance policies went. There is an underlying complexity in human interaction when it comes to wooing someone that you're overlooking in you're example.

Your argument is common and it's also lazy. So what if women turn 40 and are looking for good men after they have passed them up in times past, that's their cross to bear and you don't give a fukk if they end up lonely.