Do y'all believe the "bullies are insecure" theory?

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What kind of logic is that my man? :mjlol:
If you're going to let someone treat you like a b1tch, that's your bad, you're weak.:yeshrug: It takes a weak ass person to say, " Oh, he's treating me like sh1t because he's insecure" and then just live with it when the most effective fix is to stand up to that person. Them "bullying" you is your problem, not theirs.

I don't even feel comfortable with thinking about someone directly bullying me.
 

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If you're going to let someone treat you like a b1tch, that's your bad, you're weak.:yeshrug: It takes a weak ass person to say, " Oh, he's treating me like sh1t because he's insecure" and then just live with it when the most effective fix is to stand up to that person. Them "bullying" you is your problem, not theirs.

I don't even feel comfortable with thinking about someone directly bullying me.
Nah for sure, I feel you on that part. I'm just saying a bully is still a bully regardless if his victim is weak or not.
 

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no

sometimes the biggest dawg in the yard just wasn't taught to direct their energy positively

the bully is just playing but others see it as bullying

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If you're going to let someone treat you like a b1tch, that's your bad, you're weak.:yeshrug: It takes a weak ass person to say, " Oh, he's treating me like sh1t because he's insecure" and then just live with it when the most effective fix is to stand up to that person. Them "bullying" you is your problem, not theirs.

I don't even feel comfortable with thinking about someone directly bullying me.
Your theory would make sense if bullies kept the same energy with everyone they fukk with, but we all know they conveniently pick and choose easy targets or at least only try folks they feel they have a distinct advantage on at the time(numbers, size advantage, etc). Bullies usually bytch up when someone comes at them who happen to present an equal or greater threat, so they too, are weak. They just pick on the weaker to feel strong and mask their glaring insecurities. Bullies are usually people who are made to feel lesser or powerless in certain environments so they take it out on others in any other situation. People who are truly powerful have no need to do such things, they are secure in their stature and others know it, bullies always have something to prove to themselves and others.
Now I hate to use the broscience term "alpha", but many self proclaimed alphas are simply insecure people and often are bullies. True alphas dont bully, in fact, they usually check the bullies and put em in their place.
 

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They're not bullies, the people being "bullied" are weak. Stand up for yourself or get comfortable being that person's victim.


People do need to stand up for themselves, but they're still bullies..

Thats like saying theyre no thieves, just people who dont know how to secure their shyt...
 
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