Do y'all keep a constant conversation on a 1st date?

[jadillac]

Like for instance, do ya'll try to make sure there's virtually no quiet moments? Other than maybe moments of eating food.

Or do you just let the convo happen & fall naturally

Personally, I try my best to keep it going the entire time or saying something funny so the girl laughs. Feels awkward being with someone new and the conversation hits a long down period.

What about y'all?


*oh wait, I forgot Coli nikkas are HOH when it comes to dates.

 

[Supercoolmayo]

Speaking on dates in 2015

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Depends on the other person. I ask a lot of questions, and am open to sharing. If he's giving me one word answers the whole conversation, I'm not really sure what else I can do.

 

[⠀⠀⠀]

you shouldn't do dinner until after you fukk a couple of times

 

[1 other person]

Nah man it's almost 2016. On my first dates we just text each other back and forth while eating

 

[Black]

Depends on the other person. I ask a lot of questions, and am open to sharing. If he's giving me one word answers the whole conversation, I'm not really sure what else I can do.

Hey buddy! How has life been treating you?

 

[Mess World]

Of course . I keep the convo flowing. Most women realize that taking control in convos = dominance

Like I said I'm 36 I used to be more quiet in my early 20s

 

[CinnaSlim]

I need my partner to be able to share a comfortable silence. I talk a lot but damn, non stop? STFU.

Dudes be saying stupid shyt trynna fill the silence. It's ok to be quiet, sometimes we can vibe to the music. Just let the convo flow naturally.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Hey buddy! How has life been treating you?

Hey friend Life is alright, can't complain...how are you?

 

[Black]

Hey friend Life is alright, can't complain...how are you?

The same everything is going good no complaints from me.

 

[LEEeveryday]

If it's no natural flow then ...

I'm sick of pretty faces with no substance..

 

[PhonZhi]

Conversation rules the nation. As a man you better learn how to lead a convo. Havin a nice mouthpiece will open a lot of doors in life for you.

 

[TRUEST]

Like for instance, do ya'll try to make sure there's virtually no quiet moments? Other than maybe moments of eating food.

Or do you just let the convo happen & fall naturally

Personally, I try my best to keep it going the entire time or saying something funny so the girl laughs. Feels awkward being with someone new and the conversation hits a long down period.

What about y'all?


*oh wait, I forgot Coli nikkas are HOH when it comes to dates.

to avoid awkward situations, make sure u only go for drinks because the wait period for ur order to come through is a lot shorter.

if u go out to eat on the first date, u goto keep the conversation flowing up until the waiter comes to you, wait for her to get ur order and actually bring ur order. this is where awkward situations usually rare their heads and where most n1ggas do or say some dumbsh1t.
also, watching someone u just met stuff their face for the first time is usually plain weird and makes me chuckle some times.

anyway, drinks are really the best idea for first dates. i dont see any other date idea being conducive to sex later on in the night.
but i will say i have gone out to eat with many women and slept with them that same night. it really depends on how much u vibe with the person.

 

[PhonZhi]

I need my partner to be able to share a comfortable silence. I talk a lot but damn, non stop? STFU.

Dudes be saying stupid shyt trynna fill the silence. It's ok to be quiet, sometimes we can vibe to the music. Just let the convo flow naturally.

Doesnt "comfortable" silences develop over time tho? When you are already use to each other? I dont think on 1st dates, neither party is at the point where an extended silence is "comfortable". Or atleast im not yet. Im usually rattlin my brain for something else to say. The "comfortable" silences comes a little down the line when we're a bit more used to each other

 

[homiedontplaydat]